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#26
Aug 31, 2009, 01:50 PM
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Hang in there
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 depressedalaskan, lynn09, tryingtobeme
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Aug 31, 2009, 02:59 PM
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(((((((((((tryingtobeme)))))))))) I'm sorry I came to this thread so late. I'm sorry you are having such a hard time. If I remember correctly (and i apologize if I am remembering incorrectly) you are having "feelings" for your T? If so, you are NOT ALONE. I have been through having intense romantic and/or intense parental feelings for a therapist. It is a difficult thing to go through. And it does make you want to SCREAM!!!! I don't have any advice. Just wanted you to know I understand and you aren't the only one.
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Aug 31, 2009, 03:14 PM
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| Berries, lynn09, tryingtobeme
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Aug 31, 2009, 03:15 PM
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 It's not unusual for clients/patients to develop feelings for their Ts - you are finally connecting with a (hopefully) truly caring individual who is focused on you, someone who is concerned for your welfare and only wants to help you. That is a very powerful experience especially for those of us who feel alone and afraid. Don't beat yourselves up over it - just recognize it for what it truly is and be glad that someone or something is able to inspire such intense emotions in you - it means you're still alive and able to connect with others. No need to feel ashamed - this is a perfectly normal human response. Hugs to all.
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| depressedalaskan, tryingtobeme
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Aug 31, 2009, 04:53 PM
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I am sorry you are struggling (((Trying))). Try to stay safe. Soidhonia
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| depressedalaskan, lynn09, tryingtobeme
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#31
Sep 03, 2009, 08:48 AM
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(((((((((((tryingtobeme)))))))))))
I hope you are feeling a better? Are you? How are things going with your T? Better? Worse? Please let us know 
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| depressedalaskan, lynn09
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#32
Sep 03, 2009, 09:54 AM
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I did talk to my T about my feelings for him. On that issues it's normal for this to happen and we are working with the feelings and learning more about me from them. My T is a very caring person and only wants the best for me. My meds got change earlier this week, which could be why I'm have thoughts of ending it...IDK...not sure what I want or what to do.  Someone needs to do this to me just to try and keep me focused. Then I have me and little me fighting  day in and day out. I wish it would just stop. she was the bad one not me, now I have to pay for it.
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| depressedalaskan, lynn09
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#33
Sep 03, 2009, 07:26 PM
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(((((((((((tryingtobeme)))))))))))
Hang in there! I'm sorry you are struggling so much right now.
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I love your faults because they are part of you and I love you. --my BFF [center][b][color=#92d050][font=Verdana] |
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#34
Sep 03, 2009, 11:58 PM
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Glad you talked to your T about your feelings ((((tryingtobeme)))) - get it out in the open so y'all can deal with it and you won't have to worry about it. Please hang in there. Hope you feel better soon.
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"I walked a mile with Pleasure; she chattered all the way, But left me none the wiser for all she had to say. I walked a mile with Sorrow and ne'er a word said she; But oh, the things I learned from her when Sorrow walked with me!" (Robert Browning Hamilton; "Along The Road")
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#35
Sep 04, 2009, 03:11 PM
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((((((((((((tryingtobeme)))))))))))) ...hope you're not offended by this but...
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so ... Sorry things are so rough for you right now, hun, but please know we DO care! Hang in there and do whatever you need to stay safe, ok? Much Love and Hugs to you,hun. xox |
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