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![]() ![]() ![]() Always remember, Fuzzy, that people treat you according to who THEY are, not who you are - they treat you in accordance with THEIR identities and philosophies, not yours. When others berate and demean you that way, they are trying to make themselves feel better at your expense. You alone have the right to define your identity and worth. My addition to the list: Fuzzy is so very LOVED because Fuzzy is so very, very LOVABLE. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() P.S.: Oooooooo - I think I could really get into martial arts. Hmmmmmmmm! ![]()
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"I walked a mile with Pleasure; she chattered all the way, But left me none the wiser for all she had to say. I walked a mile with Sorrow and ne'er a word said she; But oh, the things I learned from her when Sorrow walked with me!" (Robert Browning Hamilton; "Along The Road")
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Fuzzy is
Strong in a soft package (like a lot of bears) courageous Honest delivers bearhugs like no other! |
![]() Fuzzybear, lynn09
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Thanks so much everyone, you've all been very helpful and kind and I appreciate all of you
![]() You've given me much to think about ![]() ![]() furry paws
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You don't attract critical people, it is just that there are so MANY. A lot or most of the cruel negative things people say to you? Projection: That is how they feel about themselves, or they need to put someone else down to feel better. Emotional vampires, constantly needing their supply.
How sad that we take on the blame and shame that belong to the ABUSER(S)...knowing the difference between OUR stuff and THEIR stuff is a big key. Someone else opinion of you DOES NOT define who you are, sweetie. Hugs, Sharon |
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