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Old Oct 16, 2009, 09:16 PM
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(((((Fuzzy))))) - it's so nice to hear your voice finally, and what a beautiful and honest voice it is; and I agree with all the others that it is an honor that you have shared yourself with us.

Always remember, Fuzzy, that people treat you according to who THEY are, not who you are - they treat you in accordance with THEIR identities and philosophies, not yours. When others berate and demean you that way, they are trying to make themselves feel better at your expense. You alone have the right to define your identity and worth.

My addition to the list: Fuzzy is so very LOVED because Fuzzy is so very, very LOVABLE.

P.S.: Oooooooo - I think I could really get into martial arts. Hmmmmmmmm!
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I walked a mile with Sorrow and ne'er a word said she;
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Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear

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Old Oct 17, 2009, 03:13 AM
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Fuzzy is

Strong in a soft package (like a lot of bears)
courageous
Honest
delivers bearhugs like no other!
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear, lynn09
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Old Oct 17, 2009, 05:10 AM
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Thanks so much everyone, you've all been very helpful and kind and I appreciate all of you
You've given me much to think about


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Old Feb 01, 2010, 04:10 PM
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You don't attract critical people, it is just that there are so MANY. A lot or most of the cruel negative things people say to you? Projection: That is how they feel about themselves, or they need to put someone else down to feel better. Emotional vampires, constantly needing their supply.

How sad that we take on the blame and shame that belong to the ABUSER(S)...knowing the difference between OUR stuff and THEIR stuff is a big key.

Someone else opinion of you DOES NOT define who you are, sweetie.

Hugs, Sharon
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