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Old Mar 19, 2010, 03:49 AM
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Why do people lie my case worker
told me and my T that she would ring me
today to see how I am since I have
been having a hard time of late
did she ring NO why because I am
not important enough to warrant it
a couple of days ago we got caught shoplifting
(me and my alters)
I rang to talk to my T about it and how I was
feeling but he was not there so I spoke with the case
worker and guess what she told everyone else hows
that for breaking a confidence a trust it takes
a long time to earn a trust but just a second to break it
and well while I am mad as heck she did not do
as she said she would I am not sure it would have
been a plesant call at any rate.
I feel so down and I am hurting it is not the first time
this week someone has broken my trust and I could not tell them
that is what they have done instead I just decided not to go see
them I could not face them and not have lost my cool.
I want to yell at the world right now I want to scream out
and beg for this merry-go-round ride to stop but I cannot
even do that instead I cry some out wardly but a lot inwardly
some people should never have been parents and I should
never have been born.
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Old Mar 19, 2010, 06:29 AM
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Hi, Starrina! I'm sorry you're going through this tough time.

If I read your post correctly,
  1. your case worker, who knew you were in the midst of a difficult time, failed to call you as promised, and
  2. the case worker (same person?) revealed confidential information about you to others.
You also say,
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Originally Posted by starrina View Post
...it is not the first time
this week someone has broken my trust and I could not tell them
that is what they have done...
I would love to tell you to "get assertive" and confront your case worker and therapist about all of this. But I'm beaten down, too. I regularly swallow disappointments and hesitate displaying anything negative to my caretakers. I can do so only after careful mental preparation and summoning all my focus. Even then I feel guilty for speaking up for myself.

Here's hoping you can find some way of effectively conveying to these people your disappointment in them.
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Old Mar 19, 2010, 07:01 AM
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Starrina,

What are your plans? Please post...very interesting...
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Old Mar 19, 2010, 06:05 PM
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I have no plans my mind is blank all
I see and feel is pain do I have the right to be
this upset? do I have the right to expect confidentionality?
heck if I know all I know is I am broken right now
I do not know what will be if one more thing happens
No I have no plans at least not right now.
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