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I have been depressed for at least 6 months now, and everyone i try to talk to about how i feel(besides the therapists), i mean my friends, say that it is my fault that i'm so sad. I cannot control my emotions sometimes, i don't even know if it's possible. I just get sad and cry because of little things like if i spill a glass of water. Which is really stupid, and i dont even think about crying, i just do. Is it really my fault that i'm like this, and can it actually be fixed. It's pretty much my biggest problem right now. Any advice is appreciated, thanks.
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Hi lxegirl,
Sorry you've been feelin' down. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Once upon a time I had a teacher who was fond of saying (jokingly): "You're not stupid, you're just ignorant. But, boy! Are you ignorant!"
lxegirl, as much as you care for your friends and want their esteem, they're ignorant of what you're experiencing. Low mood for six months accompanied by inability to control emotions and near-spontaneous crying goes way beyond questions of personal fault. I'm depressed, too. Just as Elana, I cannot "think positively" whenever I'd like, and even when I do, it's fleeting and is not self-reinforcing. Friends are great for lots of things, but one has to recognize their limited ability to understand this illness. Some of them may be open to learning about depression; I hope they are. ![]()
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God i am so sick of hearing how people always think its "all in your head" and acting like youre ****ing making up depression. What the hell is with that? No, we DONT make up this horrible noon day demon. =l
*rant over* You deserve better than that. Listen to your therapists and with time, you'll get better.
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In depression . . . faith in deliverance, in ultimate restoration, is absent. The pain is unrelenting, and what makes the condition intolerable is the...feeling felt as truth...that no remedy will come -- not in a day, an hour, a month, or a minute. . . . It is hopelessness even more than pain that crushes the soul.-William Styron |
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It's not your fault, depression is an illness and anyone can suffer from it. I do think it can be treated, though, with therapy or self help, or sometimes even time (but mostly not), things can get better.
Try not to take your friends' words too personally, they obviously don't understand what depression is and how it feels and they're being quite harsh in saying it's your fault. I think you can change things but it's not your fault you are suffering. It could just as easily be them. |
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