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Old Dec 31, 2010, 07:30 PM
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Today is just horrible. I just dont know what to do

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Old Dec 31, 2010, 07:33 PM
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(((((Baltazar))))) We're here for you. Did something happen?
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Old Dec 31, 2010, 08:25 PM
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Old Dec 31, 2010, 08:41 PM
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(((((Baltazar))))) We're here for you. Did something happen?
I'm having a bad week myself. I also don't know what to do. I am here to listen.
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Old Dec 31, 2010, 08:49 PM
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Old Dec 31, 2010, 08:51 PM
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I'm so sorry, Baltazar. All you have to deal with and a major life change as well.
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My emotions are in shock. Part of me knows this is the right thing and part of me is just dead.
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I just dont know what to do
Nor do I know what you can do in this extraordinarily difficult time, but I do know you need to
  • breath
  • eat
  • sleep
and keep posting whenever you want or have the strength.
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Old Dec 31, 2010, 09:21 PM
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Hello, Jaen. What has changed?
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Old Dec 31, 2010, 11:08 PM
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I'm sorry. If today was an owie, I'd clean it and put a band-aid on it and make it all better. I wish I could. *hug*
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Old Jan 01, 2011, 08:50 AM
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Thanks everyone for your support

My husband and I are in flux. We've been married 9 years and together for 15 total. I know most ppl. get divorced, I think the rate is 60%. But I've always thought I could make things work. There are issues that need to be addressed, they have been overlooked but longer can be suppressed.

This is a very hard time for me. And the support everyone is giving me really helps.

Thank you soooooooo much.

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Old Jan 01, 2011, 12:16 PM
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I too know the pain of a marriage break up. Its hard but there is help here to get you through it
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Old Jan 02, 2011, 05:59 AM
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Once again, thanks so much for your support everyone. I am borderline so dealing with any type of conflict or change is really difficult.

Sometimes I really don't know how I get through the day.
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Old Jan 02, 2011, 11:22 AM
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Right now, one foot int front of the other, don't hink further ahead then you need to to get through each minute, each hour, if you can help it. Don't worry about what you can not change. Don't blame your self for what you can't take responsibility for. Sounds easy, it's very hard. Take some HUUUUUGGGGGSSSSS, try to remember that it hurts, but feelings are no more real than you let them be. I really, really hope that you can work this through.
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Old Jan 02, 2011, 11:46 AM
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hang in there. we're here for you. sometimes life takes a painful turn. try to take time to chill out and be kind to yourself. we sometimes forget to do that. post all you need to vent your feelings too. it helps, doesn't change what is, but it releases some of your sorrow. hugs hugs hugs. there will be a new day of happiness. please don't forget that.
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Old Jan 02, 2011, 12:20 PM
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hang in there. we're here for you. sometimes life takes a painful turn. try to take time to chill out and be kind to yourself. we sometimes forget to do that. post all you need to vent your feelings too. it helps, doesn't change what is, but it releases some of your sorrow. hugs hugs hugs. there will be a new day of happiness. please don't forget that.

Hugs!!!!!

Sometimes the depression gets so bad, like flooding blackness instead of air. I do the best that I can.
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Old Jan 02, 2011, 12:21 PM
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Right now, one foot int front of the other, don't hink further ahead then you need to to get through each minute, each hour, if you can help it. Don't worry about what you can not change. Don't blame your self for what you can't take responsibility for. Sounds easy, it's very hard. Take some HUUUUUGGGGGSSSSS, try to remember that it hurts, but feelings are no more real than you let them be. I really, really hope that you can work this through.

Accepting what you cannot change is a big one.

Hugs for the support.
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Old Jan 02, 2011, 02:56 PM
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(((Baltazar))) I'm sorry things are so tough...I'm in the **** myself right now so dont really know what to say, but here are some hugs
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