[Fuzzybear]

Because I have been abused, rejected, labelled and blamed I sometimes feel less tolerant towards others.

But I WON'T abuse and judge others like I have been abused and judged..... even if they (repeatedly) exhibit the same or worse behaviour that I might have, in error and pain, exhibited.

I see many "patterns" and repeats here and they can be very frustrating... IF I LET THEM BE

Obvious but true... we are ALL hurting here. Do I or anyone have the right to FORCE MY opinions and healing schedule on others and reject and blame them if they "fail" to come up to MY standards? NO.

Fuzzy

[Overcastbutclearing]

BSB: I hear ya loud and clear! Thanks for letting out what is holding you back today.
May you know that I care deeply for you.

((((FB)))

[CedarS]

I believe it is very important for people to set good boundaries, that is what I read here that you are doing. We each make choices about how we behave. How we treat ourselves and others.

I applaud your standing up and saying that even when I am treated badly, I'm not going to automatically do it back to them.

Sarah

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Please take care of yourself. I'm so sorry for what you have been through

[Myzen]

Fuzzy,

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Good thoughts, M

[ozzie]

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I think this was a good post and I agree with the above statement. I think we all get to be on our own healing schedule and shouldn't be criticized for whatever that happens to be.

[(JD)]

RIght ((((Fuzzy))))) often we only view the symptoms of the DX someone has... here on the forums... in chat... but we each have additional life experiences going on in the back ground... the day to day life and situations and all that make each one of us have a different path for healing! For the layman, to get confused about why the book says it should only take 6 months of therapy for minor depression is one thing.. but I've heard professionals in the mental health field DEMAND that from some patients. And I just shake my head.. what's up with that???

[dexter]

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Obvious but true... we are ALL hurting here. Do I or anyone have the right to FORCE MY opinions and healing schedule on others and reject and blame them if they "fail" to come up to MY standards? NO.

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I think this was a good post and I agree with the above statement. I think we all get to be on our own healing schedule and shouldn't be criticized for whatever that happens to be.

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I second that.

[jmo531]

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