[Lexicon78]

Do you ever react negatively and have no idea why? Like today I was at my dad's having a good day. Then my step-sister came and I immediately became irritated. I guess she has this thing where she acts like she's better than everyone...she knows better than everyone...been through more crap than anyone...that kind of thing.

Now that I'm home my bf (the jerk) is trying to cuddle, hug, kiss...all of that...with me. Who wants all that when they're extremely irritable? Not me. So I told him not to touch me right now. He got upset, retreated to the livingroom and hid under a blanket. That's what he does. Just like a little baby instead of trying to talk about things with me.

The other guy I'm interested in says I should just break it off with my bf if I don't love him or want to be with him anymore. I hate making decisions.

Why are things so difficult to do? Why can't I just do this? Why do things affect me so much?

[JustBen]

It sounds like you actually have a pretty good idea why you reacted to your step-sister the way you did. She acts like she's better than everyone, and that rubs you the wrong way. As for the boyfriend, I can only say that a lot of guys react the way he does. As a general rule, you can count on us to withdraw when things look tough.

[(JD)]

I'm sorry you are angry and irritated... who you are isn't dependant upon your sister though TC