Irritated - to say the least!!

Husband has PMS! He is snappish and sensitive. Now the whole thing has escalated. I know, without a shadow of a doubt - that when this all started, I did and said nothing wrong!

Out of mutual whatever - we are not hashing it out - but there the air is thicker than a flopped cake. He tells me everything is fine. I tell him it isn't but because he asked to leave it alone, I do. If he tells me everything is fine - why the attitude?

Argh!! This on top of trying to feel attractive when I am not!

Sorry you're so frustrated. It sounds like a tough situation to be dealing with.

Men do have monthly hormonal cycles (though very few will admit it, if they know this!) However, it may be something else that has evolved at work or such. I'm sorry he isn't able to discuss this with you now (or ever?) I think that's a common response "leave it alone." It's unfortunate. TC.

Hi Sabrina,
I can't help but wonder if this is all related to what you wrote in the Self Esteem forum. Of course I don't know, men can be moody for many reasons just as we women can be, for whatever reason. Whatever the case, I hope that you can work it out as soon as possible, tension at home between family members can be incredibly stressful. My fiance and I have made a pact never to give eachother the silent treatment, and never to go to bed angry with eachother if we have a disagreement. Since you have tried to talk to your husband and he told you to leave it alone I would for the time being, but maybe try again later in a very gentle manner. I hope things work out for you, you are very special.

Hugs,
Sujin