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Old Apr 16, 2006, 09:53 PM
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WHY IS THE WORLD SO MEAN!!!! WHY DO PEOPLE HAVE TO RUIN A GOOD THING EVERY WHERE I LOOK PEOPLE ARE BEING MEAN AND DIEING! WHY DOES LIKE SUCK FOR ME WHY NOT MY PERFECT FRIENDS WHY??????? WHY DID GOD HAVE TO DO THIS TO ME! WHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IF GOD EXISTED HE WOULD HELP ME!!! WHY???????????????????????????????????????

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Old Apr 16, 2006, 09:59 PM
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Luke - well, welcome back. It's been a while.

Why don't you take some deep breaths and tell us what happened (in lowercase letters, please)?
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Old Apr 16, 2006, 10:04 PM
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I kinda know what you mean. I've been to more funerals than I can remember, and only ever been to 1(my) wedding... it is cruel, and there is no rhyme or reason for it...and it doesn't make us feel any better. But as long as you can take care of yourself, and find help where you can if you need it, that is the no1 thing right now. If you have faith in God, you will find that behind every action there is a reason. Your faith is being sorely tested, but according to the Bible, He does this to make to a stronger person. It may seem like BS and make you think 'what is the point' but you just have to stay strong. Tc
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Old Apr 16, 2006, 10:23 PM
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Part of the reason is that when we are depressed we tend to only see and feel and think depressing things. Your "perfect" friends (who aren't perfect,btw) might be on a positive roll... and one good thing carries them to the next...and that's all they see ..that's all they want to see: the good stuff. I hope you can ride the wave along with them, until better things come your way! TC

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Old Apr 16, 2006, 10:37 PM
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WHY WHY WHY!!!

I wish I knew WHY Luke.
Life can be such Hell.
I understand your feelings.
Please keep venting!
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Old Apr 17, 2006, 05:59 AM
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I'm sorry you are going through so much pain.

((((((((((((((( lukeyeats )))))))))))))))

Take care of yourself.
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Old Apr 17, 2006, 03:08 PM
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I cant take it anymore! Everything i asked god everything goes away. Like anything good the first thing i think about is: I bet this wont work out. And I am not christan I am Wiccian. But people always have to kill people. I wish my life would end...
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Old Apr 17, 2006, 08:35 PM
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It's ok that you are not Christian, imo... but your thinking that </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
people always have to kill people

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> is NOT accurate.

If what you are talking about that you can't take anymore is something that is bad, then you are right. If things feel out of control but might not really be... then a review of the 10 most common cognitive distortions might help you. (They are posted at the top of the Psychotherapy Forum.)

Saying "I can't " and "Everything" are indicators that you are overwhelmed (and catastrophizing.) I hope you can find a new perspective that will give you the relief you need. TC... hang in there.
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Old Apr 17, 2006, 08:52 PM
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Hi Luke... sounds like you are being overwhelmed due to your loss, and your pain is very evident in your post, you are in my thoughts..take care..
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