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Old Apr 18, 2006, 06:50 AM
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oh my gosh i have had a really hard past few days, one of the girls i share my apartment with has been so horrible and rude having her friends around drinking til 2am and when i try to talk to her about it she just yells at me and tells me where to go. It's really upsetting, she made me cry sooo much last night....i feel so bad, i try not to let ppl like this get to me but somtimes they do. sorry i haven't got the energy to explain properly right now, i am just so tried and stressed and just not feeling that good so i'm gonna go to bed now and hopefully i'll feel; better tomorrow but i just had to post tonight as wasn't feeling too great.
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Old Apr 18, 2006, 07:03 AM
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Hi zombiette,

Sounds like you've got a really bad (incompatible) roomate that you're living with.
(Join the club, same here. I'm in residence)

How many people are you sharing the apartment with? If its more than just the one girl, can you hold some sort of meeting and set up some ground rules?

Or is it possible to talk with your landlord into having him/her intervene and tell this girl what she can and can't do?

Sorry, I'm just brainstorming ideas. I hope you feel better today, but if you want some more help I can try. feeling soooo upset
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Old Apr 18, 2006, 05:13 PM
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there are two others but they're not there right now. the tenancy agreement says she can't do this sort of thing so if it continues talking to the landlord could be an option. am just trying to stay out of her way til the othas get home now
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Old Apr 18, 2006, 06:01 PM
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I can understand that . Better to tell her that her behaviour is unacceptable when others are around (to act as support).

I hope that things work out for you, I really do. I'm still in the process of attempting to work out the problem with my own roomate.

Good luck. feeling soooo upset
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Old Apr 18, 2006, 08:57 PM
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GRRRR. You might consider speaking now with the landlord, not to complain but to give him/her the headsup that you might NEED to officially complain soon... feeling soooo upset
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Old Apr 18, 2006, 09:10 PM
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Zombiette, sorry things are so rough at home. I cannot blame you for being stressed since it sounds like your not able too sleep and who wants too be yelled at in their own home. I agree with everything thats already been said. Just remember that is your home too and you don't need too be treated like that.
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