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Old Aug 05, 2012, 04:45 PM
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Hello I've been going through depression for months now, and still haven't gotten the help I need. My mom absolutly hates me and can't even look at me and the rest of my family just doesn't understand why I do the things I do, I tried killing myself a few times. I've asked to talk someone but my mom hasn't done anything. I've been doing drugs for around a year and I see myself changing, I hate it but I can't stop, I fell inlove with a complete asshole and still think about him today, I don't think you should give up on someone you can't go a day without thinking of, he was the only person I felt comfortable talking to about personal things. I cry all the time just at the thought of how I'm living for nothing. Everyday my mom will call me dumb or stupid and it just discourages me and brings me down, how I'm going no where in life, I have nothing to live for, all I want is someone I can talk to pleasee
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Old Aug 05, 2012, 05:14 PM
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If your mom won't get you the help you need, you need to get it yourself. Talk to a teacher? Call your doctor, call around to look for counseling or therapy. And, sometimes the family does understand, even if they don't act like it. It's just hard for them to accept, and they don't know what to do. And don't say that you 'can't' stop. Because you can. You just need the right support. And if you're not with the 'asshole' anymore, it's just showing that it wasn't meant to be. (You'll find the right person for you.)And you're not living for nothing. Life is such a beautiful thing. You need to start thinking about the good things in life. But, if you need to talk, you can PM me.
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Old Aug 05, 2012, 05:26 PM
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Thankyou it helps
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Old Aug 05, 2012, 05:55 PM
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It sounds like your mom has some issues of her own if she is calling you names and not giving you the help you are asking for! I'm sorry about that. I'm 42 now, but when I was a teen I also turned to drugs to try and escape the pain (didn't know that was why at the time...). It sounds like you really do need some help, and I hope you will not give up. As for the guy you mentioned, I would say just because you think of someone every day doesn't mean they are good for you. If he treats you poorly, and I'm guessing he does since you called him an asshole, you are better off without him. If you are surrounded by people who treat you poorly you will not feel better.

I do hope you find this to be a place where you can get some support until you can get more in real life. Things can get better as you work on things! Don't give up! Thanks for posting here and I hope to keep hearing from you!
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Old Aug 05, 2012, 06:01 PM
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It sounds like your mom has some issues of her own if she is calling you names and not giving you the help you are asking for! I'm sorry about that. I'm 42 now, but when I was a teen I also turned to drugs to try and escape the pain (didn't know that was why at the time...). It sounds like you really do need some help, and I hope you will not give up. As for the guy you mentioned, I would say just because you think of someone every day doesn't mean they are good for you. If he treats you poorly, and I'm guessing he does since you called him an asshole, you are better off without him. If you are surrounded by people who treat you poorly you will not feel better.

I do hope you find this to be a place where you can get some support until you can get more in real life. Things can get better as you work on things! Don't give up! Thanks for posting here and I hope to keep hearing from you!
Thankyou very much it helps alot
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