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Old Aug 06, 2012, 08:31 PM
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All I have ever wanted was a relationship with my oldest daughter, the one that was taken from me when she was 6 months old, but that is beginning to look like it will never happen. It all started well when I first found her a few months ago but in the last week or so she has completely shut me out of her life and there is nothing I can do about it. She doesn't return my texts and won't answer my calls...I am at a loss right now. This isn't helping my depression or my urge to SI.
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Old Aug 07, 2012, 12:16 AM
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Dear Mud Blood,

I am sorry you are suffering right now. Your situation sounds difficult and that there has been a whirlwind of activity in a short period of time. It would be a lot for anyone to process, including your daughter. I would give the situation some time. Time has a way of working things out. Don't let a situation that is beyond your control derail you...............
Thanks for this!
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Old Aug 07, 2012, 01:08 AM
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Hi mud_blood--I read your other post.. I know you are anxious to have a relationship with your daughter but as Blue Poppy mentioned maybe she needs some time to process everything? I don't know why she suddenly cut off contact with you but at least you have done all you can from your end. I hope there will be a happy ending.
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Old Aug 07, 2012, 05:50 AM
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hope it all works out.

good luck..
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Old Aug 07, 2012, 10:40 AM
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Mud blood, I agree, your daughter may just need some time. I'm sure she is overwhelmed.
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Old Aug 07, 2012, 10:48 AM
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All I have ever wanted was a relationship with my oldest daughter, the one that was taken from me when she was 6 months old, but that is beginning to look like it will never happen. It all started well when I first found her a few months ago but in the last week or so she has completely shut me out of her life and there is nothing I can do about it. She doesn't return my texts and won't answer my calls...I am at a loss right now. This isn't helping my depression or my urge to SI.
My thoughts are with you. I know very well the pain of having someone who you love cut you off, but as the other posters have said, sometimes things just need time. I pray that you and your daughter will come together in the future.....
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