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Jun 16, 2006, 02:36 PM
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by guilt.... again (perpetrators did such a good job instilling that feeling in me and any little thing sets it off
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Jun 16, 2006, 02:36 PM
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{{{{ Fuzzy }}}}}
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Jun 16, 2006, 02:51 PM
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(((((Fuzzybear)))))
You and me both! I'm dealing with some similar things thanks to those awful perpetrators/abusers! I'm here if you need to talk!
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Jun 16, 2006, 04:05 PM
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((((((((((((Fuzzybear))))))))))))))
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Jun 16, 2006, 04:07 PM
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((((((((((((( Fuzzy )))))))))))))
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Jun 16, 2006, 04:48 PM
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(((((((((((( Fuzzykins )))))))))))))) Love and cuddles to you sweetie! YOU ain't the guilty one!
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Jun 16, 2006, 07:38 PM
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Awwwww bear I wish I knew what to say, I feel guilt too and only some is warrented and it hurts when I can't undo my mistakes. It's strange how I remember and feel the nawwing in my guts of mistakes I've made decades ago.
I could just stop my life and never make anymore, except the stopping, oh wait I've done that and it didn't help either... idk muddle on and forgive, rectifie if you can, etc. It does little if any good to pile it on and bully yourself for things you can't change I figure. I try to use any justified guilt to feel good about learning how to think and behave better in the future. TC bear~Down |
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Jun 16, 2006, 08:13 PM
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((((hugs))) for all of you! You need to hear it over and over and over, and I will be here to tell you as often and much as you need to hear it: you have no reason to feel such guilt! No ifs, ands or buts about it! You must begin to hear this... don't counter it in your mind (I can h e a r you! I hear you say, yeah well Sky doesn't really know me, nobody knows what happened... etc)
It DOES NOT MATTER right now. Stomp stomp... NO GUILT NO GUILT NO GUILT! (I can share this because my T has been instilling this into my brain!) None of us are perfect. BUT that does not make us guilty when it comes to these matters! Yes, perps have trained you into thinking this way, depression adds to the misery... so the very FIRST thing you have to do is at least LISTEN when others (like me  ) say... stop that thinking! No guilt. Nope.
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Jun 17, 2006, 01:34 AM
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safe hugs only if ok fuzzybear... wish none of us every had anything bad every happen to us to cause us to think it was our fault or for us to feel guilty for things when we didnt ever need to.. my thoughts and heart is with you right now fuzzybear.. hope things get better for you soon.. Kat |
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Jun 17, 2006, 03:53 AM
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I understand guilt Fuzzy. I am sorry it is attacking you now. Please try to keep safe. My thoughts are with you!
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Jun 17, 2006, 08:59 AM
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Thank you all for understanding, it means a lot to me!
((((((((((( Gemstone )))))))))))) ((((((((((((((( Lex )))))))))))))))) ((((((((((((( Katheryn ))))))))))))) (((((((((((( Poetrylover )))))))))))) ((((((((((((( pegasus ))))))))))))))) (((((((((((((((( down )))))))))))))))) ((((((((((((((((( Sky ))))))))))))))))) ((((((((((((((((( Kat ))))))))))))))))) ((((((((((((( Sabrina ))))))))))))))))) Love, Fuzzy
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#12
Jun 18, 2006, 12:18 PM
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You are so not guilty. I hope you start to see and feel this. Please try and be kinder to yourself.
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Jun 18, 2006, 02:40 PM
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Thank you for your support
((((((((( Bear ))))))))))
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