[xrainstormx]

It had to get super bad. I was so depressed. I thank God for my boyfrined who has helped me through this. I have these things that bother me that I need to talk about. I would like to in here. It is about past stories of suicide. Can I don't that in here.

it is my understanding that we can't talk about that issue. you can look in the FAQs and you could also PM Doc John. xoxoxo pat

[(JD)]

Well..surely not your suicide, or you wouldn't be here posting! And there's no reason to give us the whole stories of any other ppl, is there? I hope your bf can help you there, but fayerody is right, you can always PM with admin or moderators. TC!

we'll be happy to talk to you about other issues. there are tons of people here who will listen and reply. xoxoxo pat

[Rhapsody]

I think she was talking about past attempts of suicide and the why (the inner pain that drove her here), and not so much of the how.... but then again that is my interpretation - being a past temptie my self.


LoVe,
Rhapsody -

[sujunew]

If you want to PM me with any ?s please feel free. I have been through a lot, and while the stuff I did to myself were classed as 'suicide attempts' I always made it clear that all I wanted to do was escape from the pain, not from the world. As I said, please PM me any time, I may not be able to answer any of your ?s but it sure helps talking about it...

[kimmydawn]

That's a VERY good question that is, and should be, reviewed once in a while!

The guidelines state: * Messages containing suicidal threats or suicidal actions.

I'll try to explain, through my past experiences here, that guideline a bit more fully.

A member can't, according to guidelines for the emotional safety of other members, post suicidal intent/threat anywhere on the forums. If feeling suicidal, please seek immediate help close to you (i.e. call 911, therapist, doctor, family member, any person that can help you when you feel you feel you can't possibly) Also, according the the guidelines, a member can't post information/detail/etc. regarding past, present or future suicide attempts (i.e. graphic detail of actions taken).

Examples of posting within guidelines regarding suicide would be discussing dealing with suicidal ideation with depression (without detail regarding action), or gaining support for a loved one/friend's attempts or ideation.

It can be confusing to try to maintain this guideline, especially when feeling suidical. I so appreciate the question to review once again.

To specifically answer your question. You could discuss the fact that there has been past attempt(s) and the effects on your life, relationships, what got you through, etc.; just about anything excepting detail of the attempt itself or intent regarding present/future. It would be against guidelines to discuss specifics regarding actions taken during the attempts.

If you have any further questions specifically, don't ever hesitate to PM me to check what you'd like to post prior to posting, or just to ask a general question.

Thanks!

KD

[walkswithspiritbear]

(((((((((xrainstorm)))) pm me if you really need to talk I am willing to listen as I have been there myself. I know though that this subject is not allowed on the board.. Please take care and I hope you will pm me. Linda

[Monty_girl]

xrainstorma, please feel free to PM if you need to talk. Been through 6 attempts in my life. The first when I was only 10yrs old. I'm here if you want to PM.

Lisa

[xrainstormx]

Thank you.

[xrainstormx]

I apprecitate that. Thank you.