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Old Mar 15, 2013, 07:10 AM
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Hey guys, feel so low. So much hurt, so much pain. I am in tears. BPD, depression and a whole host of other **** sick of being so emotionally vulnerable. Just existing…not living. Isolated and alone. Apologies for ranting.
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Old Mar 15, 2013, 07:42 AM
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Hardly a rant. A clear expression of how you feel right now. Is there something you can do for just an hour or so to feel better just for a bit? (?soak in a scented bath with the room candlelit?draw?turn up beat music on and dance?whatever little thing you know makes you forget for a bit) Sounds like a time for getting by a bit at a time for a while, you are dealing with a lot----& hey, you've got us here, it's not the same as what we may desire but it is a place to be with some folks who have an understanding------------------nothing wrong with tears. Hugs and may your day improve (don't know about you but sometimes mornings are the Worst for me)
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Old Mar 15, 2013, 07:51 AM
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I am trying to keep myself distracted as best I can. It is one of the coping strategies of DBT but even DBT didn't work for me. Oh I dunno anymore. Thank you again.
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 09:39 AM
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I've been told that "ranting" is wrong (not by anyone on here)
(sucks how we internalize every harsh comment... well I do anyway )

As if we need even more pain


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Old Apr 15, 2013, 10:04 AM
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Never give up You a a dear person, thank you for all the support you have given me.
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 10:07 AM
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I've been told that "ranting" is wrong (not by anyone on here)
(sucks how we internalize every harsh comment... well I do anyway )

As if we need even more pain


Strong thoughts to you dear person
Hi Fuzzy! A good rant does a person good. I see you have BPD too. Taking things to heart, internalizing, is part of our illness. I am trying to learn to deal with it, but it's so hard. Keep up the fight. I'm going to go read your bio, we DO sound a lot alike!
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 10:22 AM
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Life's so dark when every day is a struggle
Why go out and see the world on fire
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Speak right now and make the choice to grow
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 10:23 AM
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A rant sometimes help to get things out.. I also done DBT can you look through your folder and try and find some other skills you can use to get through this tough time.. You are not alone in your problems.. I get the feeling being emotionally vulenable, but you can fight this and keep using your skills.. I am here if you need to chat..

Claire..
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 10:25 AM
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Ranting is good. Needing attention and getting it is good. Can you get any of your favourite things for yourself right now?

You have been having a rough time the past few days. Wish I could help, or better yet that something magically good comes your way.
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 10:39 AM
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You are not alone. God is there. Give it all to God. Its not your burden to carry. Cast your cares upon him.
All things are possible for those who believe.
Yes you can!
You are a winner.
Victory.
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 10:43 AM
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I was thinking along those lines too, thanks for posting this. (wasn't sure if it was "alright" to post that here)

Cast your cares upon Him

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You are not alone. God is there. Give it all to God. Its not your burden to carry. Cast your cares upon him.
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 10:53 AM
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If you believe ,God is like the best therapist you can have. Its like talking to an imaginary friend but he is REAL.
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 05:27 PM
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Like your Disney babies!
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 05:31 PM
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hurting so much, can't take much more
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Old Apr 20, 2013, 01:34 PM
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You are not alone. God is there. Give it all to God. Its not your burden to carry. Cast your cares upon him.
All things are possible for those who believe.
Yes you can!
You are a winner.
Victory.
I am Atheist so this is not an option for me, however, thanks so much for caring.
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Old Apr 20, 2013, 01:40 PM
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A rant sometimes help to get things out.. I also done DBT can you look through your folder and try and find some other skills you can use to get through this tough time.. You are not alone in your problems.. I get the feeling being emotionally vulenable, but you can fight this and keep using your skills.. I am here if you need to chat..

Claire..
Thank you, you are very kind. I have had to accept that DBT was not for me. Yes, there are bits and pieces I can take from it.

I know now that there are other therapy options for BPD and for my other issues also.

Just still feeling same and thoughts are same so not sure what I am doing at all. Thank you for caring
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Old Apr 20, 2013, 04:01 PM
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I can relate to how you are feeling...especially about being emotionally vulnerable.. I feel overwhelmed by my emotions too...
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Old Apr 20, 2013, 04:12 PM
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I know how you feel I feel the same way. Others try to help us but it is hard to accept their help
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