The true colors of a person will always come out one way or another but they will come out.

I guess whether it's good or bad depends on how it affects you and your belief in the person. Hopefully, it's a good thing.

[oksomaybeimnuts]

very profound.....someone else said that to me just the other day.

I find out a couple of days ago that one of my coworker, who was so nice to me, always greet me with a beautiful smile, always was willing to help me out even if I didn't asked her, was all this time talking behind my back.

I think that it's sad that people think they have to do this to feel better about themselves.

[Fuzzybear]

Very profound Time0, and yes it's sad

[Bethsway]

I disagree...I think everyone is made up of many colors and they only come out when they are needed to survive...

[Bethsway]

She was not a nice person...try not to be around her...and stay with cheerful people...that is what I am trying to do...

[heartspace]

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I find out a couple of days ago that one of my coworker, who was so nice to me, always greet me with a beautiful smile, always was willing to help me out even if I didn't asked her, was all this time talking behind my back.

I think that it's sad that people think they have to do this to feel better about themselves.



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Yep it's sad. I don't know why she bothered being so friendly if she didn't feel genuinely inclined to do so. Do you know for sure she has been talking about you? Sometimes people like to drive a wedge between others by saying something negative about one person to another person.
Anyway, sorry this has happened. You deserve to be treated with sincere positive regard.

I don't think you need to backstabbed to survive.

This person has come to me many times saying bad things about others then, face to face with them, she would be all nice and friendly.

I always give the benifit of a doubt to anyone.

I heard this person talking bad about me while I was standing about 10 feet from her. She had her back to me and couldn't see me.

I knew before this happened that I was being lay off today for shortage of work. It will give me time to get over this one and I will be on my gard when I will return back to work. But then I never let myself get close to coworkers so I wasn't close to her. I have been backstabbed too many times.

Thank you all!

[Bethsway]

oh no that is not acceptable at all...that is worst thing really...because you think you are great friends and then they do something to hurt you...that is not right at all...even if you have a disagreement you don't do that to your friend...

[Bethsway]

But I do think people have many colors...that come out when needed....like bravery when you rescue someone in a fire when usually you are afraid of fires..that is what I mean by different colors for everyone...I wasn't meaning bad colors...backstabbing is bad...hateful...mean..

[PasDeDeux]

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This person has come to me many times saying bad things about others then, face to face with them, she would be all nice and friendly.

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Time0 I am very sorry she did that to you. I tend to avoid being close to people who talk about other people. This is because I know, in all likelihood they will talk about me too. Sorry you will be laid off too

[Sabrina]

I was very hurt by an ex-coworker and friend who did the very same things. The term back-stabber comes to mind.

I'm sorry Time!

And the term betrayal

You're better off without her... though it sure sucks in terms of trusting again.

[dcs_no1_fan]

If some 1 is nice 2 ur face but horrible about u when ur not there or they think ur not there then they r not worth the time of day as far as im conserned there r people out there that dont do it so please dont think were all like her T.C

[Rhapsody]

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The true colors of a person will always come out one way or another but they will come out.

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I just wish that people did not have to show sooooo much BLACK color.

[heartspace]

gee, they were talking about you when you were standing close by? tim0, I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I hope you can find a job with people who will treat you with the respect that you deserve.
(((time0)))