Sometimes I tend to feel down and depressed for long periods of time resulting from feelings of loneliness since I really don't have any friends. :/

[bharani1008]

I know how you feel. Loneliness is such a hard feeling to cope with. I also know what it is to be invisible. I've felt that way almost my whole life.
If you are depressed maybe you can see a counselor or a dr. They can help you get therapy or medications that make you feel stronger.
Also choose your friends wisely. Get to know them slowly so you can tell what kind of people they are. If they are unkind to others they might be unkind to you. There are nice people out there. You may have to look for them because they may also feel unlikable. You may be able to help someone else feel welcomed.
Here you will only meet with kindness so keep posting and you will find support.

[Sam2]

Depression seems to get worse when you are by yourself and engaged in some activity. Your mind starts to dwell on darker things and once that ball gets rolling, it can be hard to stop.

bharani has a good point about finding a counsellor. You don't have to have a major crisis to get help. Sometimes its just a matter of finding some new coping skills. At the very least, you will bet a jump on things before they get you really down.

If you have a hobby that sponsers a club, like painting or some instruments, those are always good places to make new friends that have like interests.

Sam2

[findingself]

I understand how you feel. I feel alone alot. I travel constantly for work, which doesn't help the situation. For me, I have trouble connecting with people... I have to remind myself to call, text, email people. It is not second nature for me to stay in touch. You are taking the first step in helping yourself by getting on here and typing about your feelings. Bravo.

[lostpup]

It can be hard to find good friend in real life. Do you have any hobbies? You can try finding people with similar interests online and become online buddies
I'm a really lonely person too. I have no friends because I am uncomfortable around people and don't like to talk. I found my friends in a MMORPG where I was invited to a guild and the people there were really friendly and loved chatting. The friendship was so addictive - I kept logging in just to chat and eventually we used IM to chat instead of the game client. Online friends may be a solution for you, and your online friends may eventually become real life friends too You can try posting around forums that cater to your interests.
Good luck!

[21nee]

you will always have me I care about you and love you even though I dont know you. Add me and talk to me when you need someone, Im always here

[gracez]

Hi LR15,

It stinks to hear that you're feeling down. I wish it were different for you. You have supportive friends here. I also feel lonely. I think everyone in the world is suffering from this sometimes, and esp. when we're depressed. What helps you lift out of this cycle, you mentioned sometimes. Does it eventually just lift or do you do something in particular to help that come about? I'm glad you said what's on your mind.

xxx

Gracez

Thank you everyone. . Yeah, even on other sites I feel lonely because I will ask for advice or share a similar story as everyone else and either I am ignored or get negative comments.

I'm sorry that's happening. I haven't read a lot of posts recently... I guess I missed your posts along with many others.