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Feb 14, 2014, 02:09 PM
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all the bad thoughts
All the abusive thoughts... All the things those who hurt us made us feel, or want us to feel. We are our own worst enemies. It's easier to cut off any abusers who were in our life, than to cut off our own self abusive thoughts  ((((((( Depression forum ))))))) 
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#2
Feb 14, 2014, 02:12 PM
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I just wish it was easy to cut off the damage done by such people. I haven't suffered any violent abusive situations...but plenty of verbal/mental abuse throughout public school. I don't know if it wasn't for that maybe I wouldn't be my own worst enemy.
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Feb 14, 2014, 03:51 PM
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Clara Hope is definitely not the same thing as optimism. It is not the conviction that something will turn out well, but the certainty that something makes sense, regardless of how it turns out. Vaclav Havel |
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Feb 14, 2014, 04:00 PM
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You are a good Bear Fuzzy!!! ((Fuzzy)) Don't let those thoughts win.
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Feb 14, 2014, 05:17 PM
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Hi, you're right Fuzzy. But why give them honor they certainly don't deserve by carrying over their damaged behaviors, thoughts, opinions into our own lives. Lives that could be/are really meaningful.
Although I know it really can't always be that easy for everyone, every step you can take to free yourself from an influence that doesn't deserve to be there is a step in the right direction. You didn't deserve what happened in the first place so why do you deserve the thoughts now!! So allow yourself more, give yourself more. It's the positive, helpful, supportive moments that have actually earned a place in your life. It's being YOU that actually matters. Hugs as ever Fuzzy And if you want to talk more........... Alison |
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Feb 14, 2014, 05:31 PM
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It realy is. You heard a thing so many times. That it gets into you even you don't think about it. Every time I pass by a known person and say hi! and smille I call my self stupid repetedly...When something are happening I just know I am, and I look, and I say, and I think, and I do stupid things.
Why we hurt ourselves this way? I just see does people so full of themselves and confidence and with just that they get whatever they want. I just can't get anywhere.
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Feb 14, 2014, 09:01 PM
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Quote:
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My dog  mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.
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Feb 14, 2014, 09:43 PM
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Its so true, but replacing those abusive thoughts with something positive, that's the work of it. I know, I still catch myself all the time as well, when I see someone I know, I'm reminded of something, and call myself stupid. We have to find our own worth, even after a lifetime of put downs. I hope you will find it, I've seen your value here, thanks for posting this Fuzzybear
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Feb 15, 2014, 03:09 PM
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((((((fuzzybear)))))))
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