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Old Mar 22, 2014, 11:08 PM
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Things happen. Life goes on. And right now....I just feel so alone. Alone. Alone and lost.
I'm hurting and don't know what to do.
Memories, a horrible fear of rejection, and a whole lot of shame and embarrassment.
I scared to talk right now, because I don't want to weigh down other people with my problems. But they always tell me to talk when I need to. Aaahhhhh. I just don't know what to do. I need a hug. And I just really need to know that I'm not alone.
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Old Mar 22, 2014, 11:33 PM
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You're not alone. And you won't weigh anyone down here. There's a high volume of people here to help carry your load. We're here for you. Hugs!
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Old Mar 22, 2014, 11:57 PM
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Not knowing what to do is hard. I think when we have some kind of plan, we have hope. We can get hopeful, even just working on coming up with a plan.

No plan means we don't have an idea of how to make things better. I take that's what you mean, when you say you don't know what to do. I'm sorry you're in that place of feeling like you don't know how to move on.

One consolation I would offer is that not knowing what to do, at the moment, doesn't mean you'll stay in that frame of mind. It's almost guaranteed that you won't.

But right now is hard. We're here to listen to whatever you care to share. Stop by tomorrow and tell us if things are any different.

Meanwhile, just take care of yourself, as best you can.
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Old Mar 23, 2014, 07:11 AM
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Hugs to you. You're certainly not alone
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Old Mar 23, 2014, 07:56 AM
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I offer you my hugs.
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Old Mar 23, 2014, 08:09 AM
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Hi Stronger, life goes on but that doesn't mean that everything can or maybe should just go back to being the same as............at all. And to move on in a better way can take a little time, work or support.
And as for weighing other people down with your problems well if things matter to you/if you're hurting, it matters to us too!! You matter to us!! So whenever you're ready to talk more we're here for you, whatever it is!!
But for now, you're not alone and: (hugs)

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Old Mar 23, 2014, 08:28 AM
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Old Mar 23, 2014, 03:06 PM
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Hugs. Hug. Hugs.
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Old Mar 23, 2014, 04:01 PM
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Don't feel alone, we are all here for you.

Have a hug from the UK x
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Old Mar 23, 2014, 08:45 PM
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You aren't alone. I have the same feelings as you do.

Sometimes a journal helps.
Sometimes a long soaking epsom salt bath works as you sob into the tub.
Sometimes just letting others know how you are, especially here, is a good way to help you. At least here, everyone (even though we're strangers) have one common thread.

You are not alone.
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Old Mar 24, 2014, 12:15 AM
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We are here for you so don't be afraid to vent to us. They say that joys shared double the happiness and sorrow shared halves the pain. One of the worst things about depression is the fear of rejection from anyone and everyone. I used to be one of the most outgoing people I knew and now I freeze up anytime I see someone walk past that looks like someone I know. Heck I don't even know how to walk confidently anymore. It's ridiculous when I'm even embarrassed and scared I look funny moving around in public. You are not alone, we are with you

I was on vacation for spring break but I'll be responding to everything I missed tomorrow! But as always, feel free to PM me whenever you need to talk I love to lend an ear and a helping hand so don't feel like your imposing lemme know if you need anything!!
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