Former T - a whine

He said I wasn't "endearing".... I guess he was right

Sorry for the waste of space..... just bummed by getting no sleep despite adequate meds

Your former T doesn't sound very "endearing" to me. Glad he is a former. I know the lack of sleep can also make your feelings more intense so I hope you'll sleep tonight. I often have to hold my tongue & "sleep on it" when I'm down & ready to lash out at someone (usually my husband) or if I start a crying jag. Best to take my meds & knock myself out. I usually do feel better in the morning & the intense feelings subside.--Suzy

What kind of a T would say that to someone?!?!? I'm glad he's former too.

And I know how it feels to feel like a waste of space, but you aren't. Trust me on this one.

((((((((Fuzzy)))))))))

oh fuzzy, thats not a nice thing for someone who should be a professional to say. i think you are endearing, you are to me anyway, and i knwo you are to others around here too.

its best to forget he said that and know that it isnt true. sounds like he is the non-endearing one.

about your sleep, SNAP!! but try that website i mentioned in my post. try www.healthjourneys.com and look in shop at the different ones. i know it works and i think it would help you too. give it a try at least, everythings worth a try.

speak soon fuzzy

simon

Do you want to be endearing, Fuzzy, "lovable especially in a childlike or naive way"? You're certainly lovable but I was reminded me of when I was an older teen and my stepmother would make fun of me and tell me I was "kind of big for six" meaning she thought I'd done something childish. Maybe your T meant it as a good thing that you're not endearing? It's not the same as saying you aren't lovable.

I think I agree with Perna... to say somebody is 'not endearing' doesn't mean that they are not nice ppl. It's rather a strange term to use. I don't mean to be rude with this though it might sound like it because I can't think of a more tactful way to put it, and I don't mean it to have ANY negative meaning at all, but perhaps he used 'not endearing' to say that since you have a compex personality, it takes a while for a person to get used to you and to appreciate you fully, so that their liking for you developes over time rather than immediately?

Thanks everyone for your thoughtful replies!

(At least I pose thought provoking questions/posts...... sometimes )