[ariesmars]

I wonder what it feels like to be loved. I don't think I have ever been loved.

i'm so sorry that you feel this way. i can't imagine never feeling loved and i wish i could fix it for you.
PCers are kind and supportive and perhaps if you'll continue to post about this, you will grow to feel loved here.....it's definitely here! xoxoxo pat

[sparkling]

Hi,

I know perfectly well what you mean because I feel the same. I too often wonder how does it feel to be loved.
I guess we haven't met the right people yet. Those who can love and appreciate us for who we are without any "ifs". Because I know from my own experience that when you satisfy one "if" they are going to come up with second and then another one... Never-ending cycle. Better to just leave it and wait. I'm sure you'll find such person one day. I know it's hard but it's not like you can do anything about it. We cannot force people to love us (I wouldn't want it anyway). If they don't, that's their loss. Very great loss indeed because they won't get our love either.

Take a good care about yourself and be patient. It's going to be all right.

[ariesmars]

It feels like everyone hates me. My parents are fighting with me about everything, those at work are picking on me. People keep looking at me with a mean or hateful look. What the hell is wrong with me??

[Fuzzybear]

I think what Sparkling wrote is perceptive......

You will meet people who appreciate you for who you are. Meanwhile, work on being the best you that you can be. And keep posting here as you need to and as you feel comfortable....

Kind regards,
Fuzzy

[Boopers]

I agree with Fuzzy. Try to be the best that you can be. You can't please everyone, but the one that you need to please the most is YOU.
Just remember, you are number one and you look out for you.
Let your parents argue. It doesn't mean that you have to listen, right?
I am sorry that you and Sparkling have never felt the love of another person.
Be patient. It will happen. Trust me. There is someone out there just for you. They may be feeling the exact same way as you do right now.
Good luck to you and let us know how you are doing.
Hugs,
Boopers

[dreamgirl30]

i have always lost in my life. my friends cheated me, my parents broke my trust, my husband does not love me. i can understand very well how do you feel? you just wait. i am sure you will find someone who will love you always

[ariesmars]

I just feel so bad that most people seem to be happy and talk with each other and I have no one to talk to and I guess I'm just so jealous of others, but when I try to be happy and talk to people they ignore me or say something mean or hateful and it causes me to walk away because I don't want to hear it.

[Boopers]

I'm sorry this is happening to you. It is sad that people ignore you. That isn't right.
It's even worse if they say something mean. I don't blame you for walking away.
You shouldn't have to put up with that.
I do hope that you can find friends that you can talk to and are kind and caring and aren't mean.
Always know that you can also come here and talk to us. We won't be mean to you. We will support you.
Wishing you the best.
Let us know how you are doing.
Hugs,
Boopers

[blackdog71]

I have no one who loves and supports me close by. I have one really good friend who is 1300 miles away. Sometimes I try to pull away from her. I think its because once you find someone who loves you it makes you want more. I'm just not very good at making friends and sometimes it feels like I should just accept the fact that I will always be alone. How am I suppose to pull myself out of this hole I am, when it feels so deep and no one is around to help me? Should it make us feel better that we aren't alone in thinking we are all alone?

[ariesmars]

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I have no one who loves and supports me close by. I have one really good friend who is 1300 miles away. Sometimes I try to pull away from her. I think its because once you find someone who loves you it makes you want more. I'm just not very good at making friends and sometimes it feels like I should just accept the fact that I will always be alone. How am I suppose to pull myself out of this hole I am, when it feels so deep and no one is around to help me? Should it make us feel better that we aren't alone in thinking we are all alone?

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That is exactly how I feel/am but I don't even have that one good friend you do. It simply sucks!