depressed

perhaps if we choose to cite to one's DX, we'd go to that forum and check to see if the DX is current. it could have been changed, oh, let's see, way back in December. that might put a different slant on things when DXs are blamed for one's feelings.

I would like to remind those responding to this thread that personal reference regarding members here in a negative light is against guidelines.

I've had to edit this thread more than I care to.

I know we had a difficult time a few days ago, and it's OK to express our upsets without pointing out others perceived behaviors or make vague negative comments.

Please don't use a thread to point out the dislike of another member.

Please remember to keep posting to the point and specific. Vague reference is subject to removal upon complaint.

In other words, please support the original poster without making vague reference to others at PC. If it's vague, I can't say the complaint isn't valid and comments are subject to removal. When I do that, it takes away from the support of the original poster who's asking and in need.

KD

thank you all for the support you've shown me during this time........xoxoxoxo pat

((((((((Pat))))))))))

thank you, jax............

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over things happening. judgments. not leading with open hearts. fear. anxiety. IRL is bad enough, why does it hurt to be here? xoxoxo pat

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I have felt this way in the past. I want you to know that I am always here for you no matter what!!!

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What you see, with me, is what you get

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When you said that, I said to myself "that's how I am in a nut shell" And if people don't like what they see they can pass right on by. There loss! RIGHT? I just learned that in the past few month's so it does take time.

I just want you know, I am here to support you any time you need a friend. I open my heart, lend a hand and offer an ear to you. To vent to babble to laugh my door is always open. My PM door that is

Jilene

(((( Pat ))))

I don't have any idea what happened here, but I'm very sorry you are hurting.

All I know is that I admire you tremendously and I love your straightforward and honest replies. You pop in and show your care and support and kindness frequently. You're a VIP here, imo.

thanks, guys.......i'm pulling up and and out........ just put an apple pie in the oven.........

come on over!!!!!!!!!!!

I'll bring the French Vanilla ice cream!! Hang on... be righ there!

only crazy people bake pies to ease depression at 9 at night, right?

i think i have my medical problem "figured" out (you know how i research) and have talked to my ER friend twice and he knows about as much about vaginas as i do......seriously.....i can talk about lungs and hearts and veins and arteries and brains and carotid arteries and fingers and toes......but i'm not really very smart about all of the netherland equipment. since he's an ER doc, we only saw them two or three times in a shift and it was always an STD.......so, skipping on to surgery like mine is quite the jump for both of us. we've had some giggles and some head shakers...but we're sure that my doctor is good and is doing the right thing. i'll know more Wednesday pm.

thanks for the hand holding and loving you're giving me. i've really been down over all of this. all of it.........xoxoxo pat

i'll move explanation to women's forum.

I want to come over to your house and bake pies with you.

Hang in there. I know this is scary, but I know how strong you are too. ((((Hugs)))))

every time i have a HUGE crisis.....i bake pies..........anyone out there want to analyze me?

Yup. I think it means you love pie.

Pat i missed this last week but I sure hope you are feeling better. Lots of love, hugs, and more pie! P.s Can i come over? I am craving carbs like crazy.