My fiancée :(

I got home from work early in themorning and I opened our cabinet where we keep crackers, pasta, kraft dinner boxes, etc. We have like 3 boxes of everything and they are all opened. It took me a good hour to break everything down and reorganize it all. It looks GOOD. Anyone could notice that it looked ****ing amazing. I even cleaned out enough expired crap and boxes with basically nothing in it to be able to bring the spices from the top of the cabinet to the inside top shelf.

Immediately when she wakes up she notices the spices are moved (WHO NOTICES THIS ****) and that's when the fight started I have this feeling I'm nothing more than a paycheck. I go to work and come home and go to sleep. I can't even clean up properly or have little things adjusted to my liking. This isn't my house :'(

I'm outside smoking, miserable as **** and I just want to play with my kids but I can't be with her right now. She doesn't even know I'm mad ffs...

She always thinks my ideas are stupid. She said she was moving the spices back right away. I'm thinking in my head like noooo please don't move the spices it's all I have to live for. Please don't move them

Jbuttz, counseling for yourself sounds like a good idea. been there, done that. tc

Oh well I'll go inside and play and ignore my fiancée for a while. She doesn't think I'm mad she thinks it's just another day where I'm going on and I'm off the wall.

I had therapy a bit ago which seemed to help but she had to return to school as a guidance counselor.