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Old May 01, 2016, 03:17 PM
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So I've been having these dreams as of late that just seem to be heartbreaking. Where I find myself finding someone who loves and accepts me and just curls up next to me and makes my heart melt. Then they disappear and I find myself searching for them in the dream to never find them. I wake up and just feel so alone. Just feel hurt that it was just a dream and not reality. Then it makes me think will it ever happen where I find that someone again? Or starts making me think of my ex and how I miss her. It just sucks.. Not to mention it's a rainy day here. Days like this make me feel like I've backtracked the progress I've made so far. Has anyone had dreams like this? Or maybe felt the way I do? I just feel alone even though I have family and a few friends. Just miss hugging a special someone, or having them curl up next to me, with their head rested on my chest or face up against mine. I dunno.. I'm just ranting I guess. Just a lonely crappy day.

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Old May 01, 2016, 04:20 PM
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Hello Basspro85: I'm sorry you are having such a crappy day. The sun is shining today where I live. Personally, however, I'm a dark, rainy day person. I shrink when the sun shines...

A few months back, I went through a period of time when I kept having dreams wherein I would get into a major blowout argument with my wife (& sometimes my parents... who are in reality now long since dead.) As a result of the argument, I would leave my home & walk out into the night... (it was always nighttime) with the knowledge that I neither would nor could ever return. I was always left wondering where I would go or what I would do.

These dreams always left me feeling sad, confused & frightened. I haven't had any of them recently that I know of. (I don't recall many of my dreams when I wake up.) But I obviously still remember the ones I had. I wish you well...
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Old May 02, 2016, 03:07 PM
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So I've been having these dreams as of late that just seem to be heartbreaking. Where I find myself finding someone who loves and accepts me and just curls up next to me and makes my heart melt. Then they disappear and I find myself searching for them in the dream to never find them. I wake up and just feel so alone. Just feel hurt that it was just a dream and not reality. Then it makes me think will it ever happen where I find that someone again? Or starts making me think of my ex and how I miss her. It just sucks.. Not to mention it's a rainy day here. Days like this make me feel like I've backtracked the progress I've made so far. Has anyone had dreams like this? Or maybe felt the way I do? I just feel alone even though I have family and a few friends. Just miss hugging a special someone, or having them curl up next to me, with their head rested on my chest or face up against mine. I dunno.. I'm just ranting I guess. Just a lonely crappy day.

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I sometimes have dreams that bad things are happening or I'm getting into trouble however hard I try and I wake up crying, or even hitting myself.

I suspect dreams are a way of processing our worries and as soon as I realise it's a dream I explain to myself again and again that it's a dream, it didn't happen really and I have done nothing wrong.

That helps a little, but it can herald a difficult day!!!

I'm sorry it's happening to you more often just now.

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