[ravenjade]

Why is it that when you give in and you let your walls down to someone who swears they will stay they never do. How are you suppose to recover from that? How are you suppose to trust again. All this does for me is sink me further down the black hole. It started at a young age for me with my Mom, she had been in and out of my life. My Dad also dost want to come around. a failed Marriage, another failed relationship to even my Best Friend who took us in to help us away from a horrible situation is now finding it to hard. What am I doing wrong to turn everyone away from me.

[gayleggg]

Maybe it's not you but them. It doesn't seem to me that people these days know what loyalty is. On the other hand it's hared for people to deal with people with mental illness. The ups and downs of our illness reeks havoc with relationships. I'm lucky my husband is strong enough to put up with my mood swings and not take them personally but most people can't handle it.

I'm sorry you are having trouble with stable relationships. It's part of the illness.

[Fuzzybear]

Many people aren't loyal

All part of the illness ...

Many of us here have trust issues. Abusive families can do that to people