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Old Jul 01, 2017, 03:54 PM
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I noticed that when I'm at school, I usually act normal, but I may be quieter than usual. People wouldn't know I had depression unless I told them, but I'm sure its different for everyone. I was just curious if your depression affects your social life.
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Old Jul 01, 2017, 04:13 PM
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Hello & Welcome, Mn136.

A combination of depression and anxiety slowly extinguished my social life.

May that not happen to you.
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Old Jul 01, 2017, 04:19 PM
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I'm usually pretty good at hiding it, but sometimes when it gets real bad like lately then I have a hard time talking at all or responding to people. I have to force myself to go out even tho I'd rather just sit in my room and cry, because I know it'll be better for me. But I know I act differently. I'm barely even able to eat sometimes because I might just throw up immediately if I'm feeling sad enough.
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Old Jul 01, 2017, 04:35 PM
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On the one hand, depression and anxiety impact my social life tremendously because I withdraw. On the other, when I tell people I have severe depression they can't believe it because I don't present that way.
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Old Jul 01, 2017, 05:17 PM
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When I was really sick, people could just tell I was messed up. Some people took advantage of it...

Now, after 17 years of work, my personality is the "truth".
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Old Jul 01, 2017, 09:36 PM
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It doesn't affect my personality...it IS my personality. I don't think people know it's depression, they just think I'm weird.
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Old Jul 02, 2017, 10:47 AM
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Well, people tell me I used to more jovial.

I fond some more disturbing changes to have ever been thinking of the loss of my joie de vivere, which I used to ascribe to my age back then.

I'm gloomier, I have loss of energy, attention, interest and memory...what makes up for most of our personality. So yeah... After I finally made it through all the barriers in my life, the process left me with depression which impedes the 1st shoot at freedom and success I have in life. Figures.
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Old Jul 02, 2017, 12:36 PM
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I've had depression for so long (since I was 11, I'm 26 now), that I don't even know how to answer this question. I don't know my personality without depression.
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Old Jul 02, 2017, 03:53 PM
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Yes it does at times but ask ur coworkers or those around you for true answer. It will shock you. May scare you too.
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Old Jul 02, 2017, 04:55 PM
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I'm in a similar boat as bronzeowl. I've have depression since single digits. I don't know life without it.
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Old Jul 02, 2017, 09:30 PM
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It has basically become my personality at this point. It can be seen in my eyes at all times, even when I smile.
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Old Jul 03, 2017, 10:23 AM
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I've had depression for so long (since I was 11, I'm 26 now), .
Come to think of it perhaps my jovial moments were episodes of manic disorder. Maybe I collected several disorders along the way. No way to tell.
I suffered astounding loss of motivation at 12.
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Old Jul 03, 2017, 07:40 PM
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Depression certainly influences my personality, but the effects aren't all bad. I'm very sensitive, which can cause difficulties, but it also helps me empathize with other people. I tend to be quiet around others, but that gives them an opportunity to talk, which a lot of people appreciate.
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Old Jul 05, 2017, 07:51 PM
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Is personality a skeletal thing, or a projection outwards?

This philosophical perspective of mine on personalities has been bothering me regarding who I am.

If there's one thing I can tell about depression, it affects how YOU interact with the outside world.
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Old Jul 05, 2017, 09:31 PM
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It doesn't affect my personality (as I understand the term), but it makes me very risk averse, worried, pessimistic, withdrawn and passive.
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