Confession of Fuzzybear. I'm not ok

88Butterfly88 · Sep 02, 2017, 10:31 AM

You are a good person, you make lots of wonderful posts here.

Fuzzybear · 05:41 PM

Thanks everyone

Your support means a lot to me

That damn inner critic, it wants me to hide in a dark cave more than is good for me

Fuzzybear · Sep 03, 2017, 05:43 PM

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Originally Posted by SoupDragon

Fuzzy, you are one of the kindest, posters on here. I think you show such great empathy for others. I am sorry, you feel like a bad person, that is definitely not how I view you.

That damn inner critic, can be a pain in the backside. I try to tell mine to get lost sometimes, but know at other times, it can feel very crushing and takes over my head.

Big hugs to you.

((((((( SoupDragon ))))))

I feel the same about you. You're one of the kindest posters here. I love reading your posts and I think you have great empathy too. Thank you for sticking around here

Fuzzybear · Sep 03, 2017, 05:45 PM

I'll be back to this thread at some point. I genuinely appreciate each one of you who replied. You've made a difference

may24 · Sep 03, 2017, 06:38 PM

Hi fuzzy

I haven't been on PC in a long time, but I just found this thread and I only wanted to let you know that you're one of my favorite people on this site. I don't think you post too much, and I love it when you post bear pics on your replies!
I hope you're doing well. Take care ❤️

Fuzzybear · Sep 03, 2017, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by snowflake20

Hi fuzzy

I haven't been on PC in a long time, but I just found this thread and I only wanted to let you know that you're one of my favorite people on this site. I don't think you post too much, and I love it when you post bear pics on your replies!
I hope you're doing well. Take care ❤️

(((((((( snowflake ))))))) thank you

Fuzzybear · Sep 03, 2017, 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Azureseas

Hi there Fuzzybear,
I read a lot but don't often post. However, just seeing your name makes me smile, and as I read posts in the relatively short time I have been on this site I always notice how kind and welcoming you are to everyone. And then I find myself wishing you could extend that same warmth and compassion to yourself as well!
I don't know you obviously, but I think anyone known as "Fuzzybear" and with such a caring heart, can't POSSIBLY be a bad person. And as a social work major as well as someone who experiences depression, anxiety attacks and has survived myself, I'd like to think I am a pretty good judge of character lol.

Thank you Azureseas

I meant to reply back to your kind post before, and to everyone else here I didn't reply back to individually, I do try to be thoughtful ... in fact too much so as if I'm "betrayed" or harshly rejected I feel the sting more than someone with less empathy for others. I do think you're a good judge of character, thank you. Although I have a virulent harsh inner critic I do know my own heart and intent

Sunflower123 · Sep 03, 2017, 07:35 PM

(((((Fuzzy)))))

scarlett35 · Sep 04, 2017, 06:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

Thanks starrysky - having zero replies does hurt. I'm sorry it happened to you. Sometimes people just don't know what to say and so say nothing, I'm sure you know that already, but if others receive 20 replies it can feel... uncomfortable

It does make someone feel unappreciated but you are worthy of a response and so am I

I have anxiety and social anxiety amongst other things so these things hurt and bring back memories which are sub optimal. But actually I do think pc is a supportive place for the most part. I value your presence too

I think sometimes people just miss the threads as it's such a big forum! I blame the app I use too as it's not laid out very well! Hope you're feeling a little better today

Turtle_Rider · Sep 04, 2017, 07:28 AM

Hi Fuzzy. How are you feeling today? Are you OK now?

Does the bear I sent for you earlier helps?

ravencrow · Sep 04, 2017, 09:25 AM

Fuzzy i know how you feel i avoid a lot in my life
It's awful cycle wish I could change its hard *hugs*

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