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Location: houston
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Mar 02, 2018 at 09:14 AM
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Seems like everywhere I go people are just nasty af towards me. Nearly every job I've had I keep to myself stay quiet don't try to start conflict with anyone, then next thing you know somebody's laughing and talking about me. I've been called all kinds of names from ugly to " dumb *****" by people at work and on public transportation that I don't even know! I've learned to ignore it now but the hostility from people (these same people seem to bond and make friends with each other) is the reason why I will probably NEVER make friends. I live in a major city, could that be the case? What cities could I live in where decent friendly people actually exist? or do looks only f*cking matter.
Like is this **** normal to be treated like **** by co workers random strangers, consistently tested and provoked? I can literally be minding my own business not doing **** wrong and all these predators come out. How the **** do people even want to socialize make friends or even date? Most people are so disgusting acting it literally makes me sick. I've avoided going to work a lot of times just to hideaway in my room and I fear that's never going to change. |
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Member Since Nov 2015
Location: houston
Posts: 67
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Mar 02, 2018 at 09:14 AM
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And then what makes it worse is when I look up videos on avpd or people similar it's like they always got one or two people to hang out with. How the ***** do u have avpd and a social life? I have zero friends never dated and the few people that are interested in me I'm not interested in or else they start to behave just like everybody else. Never dated or none of that. And most people will look at me like I'm crazy like "what the hell is wrong with her. Mid 20s. No friends? No boyfriend?" Nope. Because of the way I've been treated by other people. I haven't been rejecting people they've been rejecting me.
So now I've become a misanthrope. I hate humanity as a whole. |
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Mar 02, 2018 at 11:52 AM
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After 50 years of existence, I find "humanity" both inspires and appalls me. We can range from awesome to total jerks, and even the nicest people can have their bad moments. I know I sure have mine too!
I know it's important to find your social niche, to spend quality time with people you really click with. It doesn't always seem easy to me, either. Finding the time and finding the people ... ugh, how many hours in the day do any of us have again!?  Either browsing the interwebs or listening to people offline, I feel myself losing and regaining my faith in humanity over and over again (especially in the last few years, what's with all the judgmental people!? Were they always like that and I'm only noticing it now?) |
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Mar 02, 2018 at 01:06 PM
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 It sure looks like you're in a toxic environment. I'm sorry. There ARE good people, although they're not easy to find.
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