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Old Apr 11, 2018, 08:52 AM
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I’m feeling grrrrrrrr..
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Old Apr 11, 2018, 09:23 AM
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I’m feeling grrrrrrrr..


I need a valium fuzzy...

freud said that we turn our anger inward and blame ourselves...
I have a lot of anger about a lot of things...I want on your bus..
the fuzzy bus....but I want to talk about my anger about my wife's dog..
that damn dog has caused ME unbelievable problems...
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Old Apr 11, 2018, 11:06 AM
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I need a valium
I need an anti-depressant
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Old Apr 11, 2018, 11:59 AM
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I need an anti-depressant
why do you need an antidepressant
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Old Apr 11, 2018, 12:05 PM
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I need a valium fuzzy...

freud said that we turn our anger inward and blame ourselves...
I have a lot of anger about a lot of things...I want on your bus..
the fuzzy bus....but I want to talk about my anger about my wife's dog..
that damn dog has caused ME unbelievable problems...
I am a dog lover; yet, sometimes.... uggh!
Yesterday, I'd visited an old friend I have not seen in years. It was good to see each other. However, she'd let her little dog bark incessantly the whole time! We were trying to visit over the dog. She kept warning me the dog might bite my leg. Well, do something to set some boundaries! Sometimes...

I've made sure our next meeting is away from the house/dog.

I am a dog lover... sometimes the dog needs help because the owners need help. A friend, a professional dog trainer, often says she is training the owners, not the dogs!


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Old Apr 11, 2018, 01:25 PM
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but I want to talk about my anger about my wife's dog..
that damn dog has caused ME unbelievable problems...
What happened with you and the dog?

I need a benzo too! So much! I am drawning in anxiety right now!
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Old Apr 11, 2018, 01:31 PM
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why do you need an antidepressant
My depression is not getting better
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Old Apr 11, 2018, 02:46 PM
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My depression is not getting better


what is causing your depression
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Old Apr 11, 2018, 08:09 PM
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The dog. Please.
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Old Apr 11, 2018, 10:46 PM
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what is causing your depression
I think it is biological - a drop of chemicals.
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Old Apr 12, 2018, 05:01 AM
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What happened with you and the dog?

I need a benzo too! So much! I am drawning in anxiety right now!


mulan it is too long and complicated about the dog...
i am very mad at my wife about HER dog...
HER dog causes me a lot of STRESS...

there is one advantage having this problem...
i can practice handling my anger that i have
toward my wife...and avoid the 7 deadly habits..
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Old Apr 12, 2018, 05:05 AM
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I think it is biological - a drop of chemicals.


yes desiree...in addition are there any psychological or social causes...
of your depression
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Old Apr 12, 2018, 06:50 AM
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i am angry that we have to die...what an awful thing..very sad

I need a valium...
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Old Apr 12, 2018, 07:07 AM
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Hi little turtle, if you got completely off the valium, congratulate yourself. You can do this. Take some deep breaths and distract yourself with something. I made a mistake 18 or more years ago. I was off ativan due to being preganant, and i went back on it a few years later. I regret it. I haven't been able to completely stop my diazepam. But i wish i had heeded the voice of the doctor. He said, you've been off of it for a year, i will prescribe it, but i think you are making a huge mistake. I know he was right. I am so tolerant to benzos they do zip all for me. I hope you find a way to get your frustrations out.
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Old Apr 12, 2018, 07:26 AM
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Hi little turtle, if you got completely off the valium, congratulate yourself. You can do this. Take some deep breaths and distract yourself with something. I made a mistake 18 or more years ago. I was off ativan due to being preganant, and i went back on it a few years later. I regret it. I haven't been able to completely stop my diazepam. But i wish i had heeded the voice of the doctor. He said, you've been off of it for a year, i will prescribe it, but i think you are making a huge mistake. I know he was right. I am so tolerant to benzos they do zip all for me. I hope you find a way to get your frustrations out.


thank you disparaissant....my frustrations....my anger will never go away..
in fact I hope it never goes away...because there is a lot of terrible things people are doing to each other...I will pay attention to my anger toward my wife....I need to manage it...I need to pay attention to how I AM
BEHAVING....
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Old Apr 12, 2018, 08:06 AM
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yes desiree...in addition are there any psychological or social causes...
of your depression
There are a few other causes :
1) my health - I feel low in energy and have breathing problem. 24/7. I guess I have to talk to my doc about my breathing problem.It's bothering me a lot;
2) my short term memory problems - I am not able to work cause of these and this makes me worry about money in the future. In my country we don't have disability;
3) the process of immigrating to usa is long and complicated. I worry when my bf and I will be united.

But I still think my depression is mostly biological.
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Old Apr 12, 2018, 08:20 AM
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There are a few other causes :
1) my health - I feel low in energy and have breathing problem. 24/7. I guess I have to talk to my doc about my breathing problem.It's bothering me a lot;
2) my short term memory problems - I am not able to work cause of these and this makes me worry about money in the future. In my country we don't have disability;
3) the process of immigrating to usa is long and complicated. I worry when my bf and I will be united.

But I still think my depression is mostly biological.

desiree----how is bf coming along
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Old Apr 12, 2018, 08:44 AM
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desiree----how is bf coming along
He is very supportive. He loves me very much. I m grateful to have him in my life.
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Old Apr 12, 2018, 08:07 PM
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Old Apr 13, 2018, 06:27 AM
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it is so hard to describe how bad it is when you are broken down...
when I broke down... for a month all I could do was eat and pee and cry..
then I was feeling that I could not be responsible for anything..
I tried going to a research lab but all I could do was wash glassware...
and I could only stay in the lab for a couple of hours...
you could have whipped me and I would not be able to do any work..
it is terrible to remember this..but it is important for others to understand..
YOU JUST CANT DO MUCH...it is kinda like paralysis..but others do not understand..
you have to experience it to know how awful and how weak you feel...
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Old Apr 14, 2018, 07:49 AM
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I am now reading the book BEYOND PROZAC....by an irish doctor terry lynch..
if I was back in psychiatry practice I would not prescribe any medicines/drugs....
if a person needed or wanted drugs I would refer them to another doctor...
i would only be talking...no drugs...but i would not look down on anyone taking or wanting drugs...this is an awful world and we are trying to survive and feel good..
and i take drugs...and if i needed them i would take more..
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Old Apr 14, 2018, 08:34 AM
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they tried to get me to see patients every 15 minutes.....I wouldn't do it..
they kept telling me that I was not doing enough...not seeing enough patients...
I will NEVER submit to that kind of way to treat people..
especially people that are suffering....
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Old Apr 14, 2018, 08:35 AM
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has anyone seen the bbc program-----------BOYS DONT CRY...
I may not have that right....there is the film...I know...but somehow a bbc panorama had something about young boys killing themselves...

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Old Apr 15, 2018, 03:47 AM
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they tried to get me to see patients every 15 minutes.....I wouldn't do it..
they kept telling me that I was not doing enough...not seeing enough patients...
I will NEVER submit to that kind of way to treat people..
especially people that are suffering....

They were jerks to do that to you and your patients. Good for you!

Most of the psychiatry department walked out because of this at my medical center. Including my doctor. I don’t blame them. It created quite a crisis for a while until they finally changed things. I get 1/2 hour appointments now. Much better.
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