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Old Apr 22, 2018, 10:58 AM
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I believe I said that psychiatrists MAY be harming more than helping...
I am not talking about individuals...I was helped by one psychiatrist very much....I am talking in general..i don't know for sure..

I am mainly talking about giving too many people drugs for everything...
and no talk about what might be causing the depression...
I certainly personally consulted both a psychologist and a psychiatrist who harmed but did not help,

Apparently, I’m not “endearing” - psychologist

And there was “no point” in seeing the shrink for more than 15 minutes every 3 months - psychiatrist

thanks a ****ing bunch to those “professionals”
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Old Apr 22, 2018, 11:06 AM
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I wish you could....
I am the broken down psychiatrist...
I am not rich and famous...
I am an unhappy person mostly...
I love valium but I don't take it now...
but the major thing for me is TRUTH AND HONESTY...

desiree we are talking now about DO NO HARM...
DO NO HARM - I agree

Also Truth and Honesty without brutality..

I wish I could attend those talks too
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Old Apr 22, 2018, 11:10 AM
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the health talk at the library ----
right now there are 4 of us..
two guys and two girls...
we are talking about good mental health..
true mental health...relationships
one poet/one lesbian/one Vietnam vet/one broken down psychiatrist
talking about what has happened to us and what then to do..
To be allowed to talk about what happened to us and what then to do is quite something and not easy to find irl without being further harmed in my experience.
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Old Apr 22, 2018, 11:42 AM
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I wish you could....
I am the broken down psychiatrist...
I am not rich and famous...
I am an unhappy person mostly...
I love valium but I don't take it now...
but the major thing for me is TRUTH AND HONESTY...
desiree we are talking now about DO NO HARM...


"TRUTH AND HONESTY" where are YOU??
"DO NO HARM" where are YOU?

TOO LATE FOR ME!! Looks like I am permanently damaged now and the rotten "professionals" continue their torment because they enjoy hurting people.
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Old Apr 23, 2018, 07:43 AM
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today at the library the little group will be talking about relationships..
my main problems are with my wife and kids...
I can really get angry about some of the things going on...
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Old Apr 23, 2018, 08:54 AM
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today at the library the little group will be talking about relationships..
my main problems are with my wife and kids...
I can really get angry about some of the things going on...
Are you able to talk about your feeling angry within those relationships?

I find doing so opens up more communication.

Anger is an interesting emotion. It is often triggered by a preceding emotion, like hurt, embarrassment, sadness, rejection, etc. The key to understanding our anger is often in understanding the emotion(s) which triggered anger.

I hope you have a productive group experience today!


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Old Apr 23, 2018, 01:07 PM
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today at the library the little group will be talking about relationships..
my main problems are with my wife and kids...
I can really get angry about some of the things going on...
How could a mother “get no pleasure” from her kid (me)

I don’t understand
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Old Apr 24, 2018, 08:09 AM
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How could a mother “get no pleasure” from her kid (me)

I don’t understand
fuzzy why was your mother that way...
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Old Apr 24, 2018, 01:20 PM
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fuzzy why was your mother that way...
1. Malignant narcissism

2. I was the “wrong sex”
But maybe I was already a “disappointment” to her even before I was born
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Old Apr 24, 2018, 05:05 PM
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1. Malignant narcissism

2. I was the “wrong sex”
But maybe I was already a “disappointment” to her even before I was born
I would like to know more...I have had trouble with my mother..
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Old Apr 24, 2018, 05:12 PM
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Her brother died.. I think (unconsciously?) she wanted a “replacement”.

She declared the “fact” that “women are inferior” - BS..

The Paternal Unit had affairs from before I was conceived. As I “failed” to stop these affairs, they decided to have no more children (only cub)

How about your mother?
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Old Apr 24, 2018, 07:42 PM
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I hope this little note finds you well, and your day has been good!!!!!!!
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 08:02 AM
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Her brother died.. I think (unconsciously?) she wanted a “replacement”.

She declared the “fact” that “women are inferior” - BS..

The Paternal Unit had affairs from before I was conceived. As I “failed” to stop these affairs, they decided to have no more children (only cub)

How about your mother?

my mother used me....she used me as a substitute husband....
I got a lot of goodies but there was also damage done...
I really don't think about her much anymore..
I wish I could remember more...
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 10:50 AM
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my mother used me....she used me as a substitute husband....
I got a lot of goodies but there was also damage done...
I really don't think about her much anymore..
I wish I could remember more...
I wish I could remember more too... I’ve been told there was a lot of “damage” done, by a damaging T.. or rather he said I was “damaged” Geeze, hadn’t that jerk even heard of “reframing”? Apparently, not
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Old Apr 25, 2018, 12:44 PM
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the FOOD REVOLUTION NETWORK is having an internet summit 4-28 to 5-6...
there are a couple of speakers talking about food and healthy minds...
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Old Apr 26, 2018, 07:22 AM
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the next health talk at the library will be about using psych meds for kids...
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Old Apr 26, 2018, 02:12 PM
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the next health talk at the library will be about using psych meds for kids...
This is important. It’s also important not to ignore kids mental health concerns (as mine were )
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Old Apr 27, 2018, 07:45 AM
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This is important. It’s also important not to ignore kids mental health concerns (as mine were )


fuzzy---what mental health concerns of yours still aren't being paid attention to...
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Old Apr 27, 2018, 08:49 AM
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my biggest problem ever was being compassionate with myself...
i have been very harmful to me....i tried to whip myself into shape..
it was someplace i really didn't want to go....i tried to force myself..
a war was going on inside me..
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the next health talk at the library will be about using psych meds for kids...
I was given too many meds as a kid - tricyclics and several others - and I only had exam phobia.I never got better after that.
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Old Apr 27, 2018, 07:19 PM
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fuzzy---what mental health concerns of yours still aren't being paid attention to...
Depression, anxiety, CPTSD.. I don’t know what else as they can’t diagnose in 10 minutes. They do try to prescribe meds but as you know I can’t tolerate meds except for benzos and possibly one very new med which I don’t think does much..
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I was given too many meds as a kid - tricyclics and several others - and I only had exam phobia.I never got better after that.
Ugh.. sorry to hear that....
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Old Apr 27, 2018, 07:26 PM
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my biggest problem ever was being compassionate with myself...
i have been very harmful to me....i tried to whip myself into shape..
it was someplace i really didn't want to go....i tried to force myself..
a war was going on inside me..
I was wondering if you think judgmental therapists or doctors can help? Seems like a stupid question.. what do you think though

Maybe many can’t help because they are... ugh... I won’t even go there
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Old Apr 28, 2018, 05:05 AM
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I was wondering if you think judgmental therapists or doctors can help? Seems like a stupid question.. what do you think though

Maybe many can’t help because they are... ugh... I won’t even go there


for me it would take a very loving compassionate intelligent psychotherapist...probably a woman...and it would take time and money..
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I just wanted to wish Little Turtle, and Fuzzy Bear a wonderful day without any problems, my Thoughts, and Prayers are sent to You Both, and everyone reading this post. Things on my side have been extreamly bad, but I just try to remember the serenity prayer.
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