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Old Dec 27, 2018, 01:37 PM
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i would like to be the cowardly lion on the AS IS BUS...
I am very scared of many things at home and in the world...
and I don't want to drive...I am afraid of being left behind...
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Old Dec 27, 2018, 04:30 PM
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You are scared, but you keep going.
You had a panic attack, but you persevered for seven years.
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My dog mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.
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Old Dec 27, 2018, 05:56 PM
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I cant help anyone....I need to help myself...I need help...
We are here to help Little Turtle...

I have had panic attacks before too. You are not alone.

They are frightening and scary...
I take days to recover from them...
When I can remember, I try to remind myself, I am in an adult now and I am not in any danger....
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 03:05 PM
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((((((( little turtle, Rohag, Thirty shades and all on the bus )))))))

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Old Dec 29, 2018, 04:09 PM
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((((((( little turtle, Rohag, Thirty shades and all on the bus )))))))

((((Fuzzybear))))

Love to everyone on the bus today....
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Old Dec 29, 2018, 04:39 PM
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fuzzybear and rohag and thirty shades and everyone on the bus...

maybe we can be happier with ourselves as is...
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Old Dec 30, 2018, 06:09 AM
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fuzzybear and rohag and thirty shades and everyone on the bus...

maybe we can be happier with ourselves as is...
Acceptance is a big part of love....

Good advice Little Turtle....

Self love and the love from others who share our struggles get us through each day.

Here is my list of love ingredients...
Respect
Understanding
Caring
Trust
Acceptance
Admiration
Approval
Appreciation
Encouragement
Devotion
Validation
Reassurance

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Old Dec 31, 2018, 09:54 AM
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I continue searching for what is TRUE....
depression is very hard to understand...
a lot has to do with fear...I am very afraid..
my friend's son just killed himself...
I really wonder about suicide...what is true...
that son is dead...
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Old Dec 31, 2018, 12:28 PM
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I continue searching for what is TRUE....
depression is very hard to understand...
a lot has to do with fear...I am very afraid..
my friend's son just killed himself...
I really wonder about suicide...what is true...
that son is dead...
Hi little turtle,
I too think that a lot of depression has to do with fear, and that it’s very hard to understand.

I’m so sorry about your friend’s son.
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Old Dec 31, 2018, 12:28 PM
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I'm so sorry, Little Turtle.
I am sorry, and I do not judge. I cannot judge.
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Old Dec 31, 2018, 02:31 PM
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I'm so sorry, Little Turtle.
I am sorry, and I do not judge. I cannot judge.
I agree, Rohag doesn’t judge

(Rohag knows some of my “secrets” .... ssshhh dare I even say that to that Judgmental World out there ..... and for the record......... they are not “bad” secrets

And I grrr at all the judgers out there

Love to all here

(Sigh) “and we who must remain, go on living just the same”(sigh)

(Heart) to all (heart)
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Old Dec 31, 2018, 02:35 PM
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*scoops a spade full of love up and throws it all round the thread so everyone gets splashed with some love*
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Old Dec 31, 2018, 02:37 PM
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I agree, Rohag doesn’t judge

(Rohag knows some of my “secrets” .... ssshhh dare I even say that to that Judgmental World out there ..... and for the record......... they are not “bad” secrets

And I grrr at all the judgers out there

Love to all here

(Sigh) “and we who must remain, go on living just the same”(sigh)

(Heart) to all (heart)
I know one of Fuzzy;s secrets, she's a softie who deserves to be buried in love

(sorry Fuzzy I had to remove one of the smilies from your post cause it will not accept my message otherwise)
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Old Jan 01, 2019, 06:12 AM
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I continue searching for what is TRUE....
depression is very hard to understand...
a lot has to do with fear...I am very afraid..
my friend's son just killed himself...
I really wonder about suicide...what is true...
that son is dead...
I am sorry you have lost you're friends son.

Tough to support friends going through hard times too.
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Old Jan 01, 2019, 06:16 AM
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I agree, Rohag doesn’t judge

(Rohag knows some of my “secrets” .... ssshhh dare I even say that to that Judgmental World out there ..... and for the record......... they are not “bad” secrets

And I grrr at all the judgers out there

Love to all here

(Sigh) “and we who must remain, go on living just the same”(sigh)

(Heart) to all (heart)
None of us are perfect.

I am trying not to judge myself so harshly.

I am kinder and more understanding of others.
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Old Jan 01, 2019, 06:17 AM
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*scoops a spade full of love up and throws it all round the thread so everyone gets splashed with some love*
Thank you Whispershadow

It's raining Love
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Old Jan 02, 2019, 10:08 AM
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i am not sure about these psych drugs....
so much money is being made selling them...
i hope so much that they would help.....
but i don't like that they are not a natural substance...
psychiatrist dr henry nasrallah says that Haldol is toxic...
that it works but there are better drugs to take...
i just don't know now...what are your thoughts...
it just makes me more sad and afraid not knowing
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Old Jan 02, 2019, 12:20 PM
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i am not sure about these psych drugs....
so much money is being made selling them...
i hope so much that they would help.....
but i don't like that they are not a natural substance...
psychiatrist dr henry nasrallah says that Haldol is toxic...
that it works but there are better drugs to take...
i just don't know now...what are your thoughts...
it just makes me more sad and afraid not knowing
Drugs are not natural
Never help me either
Just get too many side effects
On top of dealing with everything

I wish I could just have a trigger free life.....
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Old Jan 02, 2019, 01:53 PM
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Drugs are not natural
Never help me either
Just get too many side effects
On top of dealing with everything

I wish I could just have a trigger free life.....
I feel the same

Too many debilitating side effects from drugs
On top of everything else

I’m tired of all the triggers

Love to all
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Old Jan 03, 2019, 08:40 AM
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AS IS....we are suffering with depression....
most people don't understand...
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Old Jan 03, 2019, 09:56 AM
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I don't understand other people with depression. I don't understand my own. I understand the dulness, but many times, I can't even know I feel like that.
I feel distant and empty and I am pretty tired to pretend I can connect and understand. Sometimes it will happen, but you should be waiting for a dull, moody and angry mulan. I have to accept I can feel this way, and that I shouldn't be embarassed by it. I should accept most of the days most of the people annoy me and I am entitled to that feeling. I am not the one responsible to make them feel good about themselves! (rant!) (easier said than done).
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Old Jan 03, 2019, 05:51 PM
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AS IS....we are suffering with depression....
most people don't understand...
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Old Jan 04, 2019, 09:05 AM
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I don't understand other people with depression. I don't understand my own. I understand the dulness, but many times, I can't even know I feel like that.
I feel distant and empty and I am pretty tired to pretend I can connect and understand. Sometimes it will happen, but you should be waiting for a dull, moody and angry mulan. I have to accept I can feel this way, and that I shouldn't be embarassed by it. I should accept most of the days most of the people annoy me and I am entitled to that feeling. I am not the one responsible to make them feel good about themselves! (rant!) (easier said than done).


I don't understand depression...
why do we suffer so much...
I get very depressed about my marriage...
what depresses you most...
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Old Jan 04, 2019, 09:32 AM
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I am most afraid of being left alone....
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Old Jan 04, 2019, 09:39 AM
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I am afraid of emotional games...
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