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Grand Magnate
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Oct 04, 2018 at 03:01 PM
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she came that way...she is very smart....but very critical of me...she is a good talker...I am not a good talker...but I am learning...even now after 63 years of marriage... |
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Oct 04, 2018 at 03:16 PM
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I’d probably have learnt the same thing.. with someone else. To be a good talker. How the **** do I teach myself that and all those other skills.
And there is at least one N in papa bears family. I do not “like” them ......   
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Oct 04, 2018 at 03:30 PM
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 I bite my tongue and take a few deep breaths while I make sure I am giving him the floor and also make sure I am listening and I validate him/his concerns. I am very sorry your wife has chosen to be critical of you. Have you been able to tell her you feel this way?  WC __________________ May we each fully claim the courage to live from our hearts, to allow Love, Faith and Hope to enLighten our paths. 
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Grand Magnate
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Oct 04, 2018 at 04:39 PM
#84
I am very unhappy in my marriage...I just feel she takes me down..
I do not trust her with my heart...that is very sad...but that is reality for me.. |
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Oct 04, 2018 at 05:41 PM
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Oct 04, 2018 at 06:56 PM
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We need our spouses to believe in us!  WC __________________ May we each fully claim the courage to live from our hearts, to allow Love, Faith and Hope to enLighten our paths.
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Oct 05, 2018 at 07:29 AM
#87
I can no longer trust my wife with my problems...I am sad...
I am now becoming aware of how damaged she is and how she remains secret about her problems...she is damaged goods also... I am damaged goods and have a harder time hiding it...but I no longer want to hide my problems....I am a human being with problems... I no longer believe that I have some mental disease....I am no longer in the DSM....and I hope that I can sh--can my celexa...I am scared... |
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Grand Magnate
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Oct 05, 2018 at 07:30 AM
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thank you all my friends here on this forum for helping me...
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Oct 05, 2018 at 07:32 AM
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I feel so sad for all the friends and family and patients who have died by suicide...
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Grand Magnate
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Oct 05, 2018 at 07:47 AM
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I am glad about something...
since my breakdown#3 I have seen myslf as a piece of crap.. well that is changing just a little...I am now talking more about me being a human being with problems... not a defective weak mentally ill slacker... |
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Oct 05, 2018 at 02:40 PM
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Oct 06, 2018 at 07:01 AM
#92
I am very disturbed about young kids being given psych drugs...
when I first broke down at age 19 there were no psych drugs... it was a terrible breakdown but I recovered and had a life until my next break at age 34.... |
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Oct 06, 2018 at 09:16 AM
#93
the words that are said by a therapist...
may be more damaging than these psych drugs... |
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Oct 06, 2018 at 09:17 AM
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my wife and I had a constructive talk today..
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Oct 06, 2018 at 09:26 AM
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Oct 06, 2018 at 09:29 AM
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And these sub optimal therapists.. when people consult them..some of the people learn or “perfect” their own skills ... of .. invalidation.
Instead of the therapeutic space being safe.. it can be far from safe. 
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Oct 06, 2018 at 09:31 AM
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Do you want to share more about what happened when you were 34? 
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Oct 06, 2018 at 09:50 AM
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Oct 06, 2018 at 11:03 AM
#99
I tried to have a private practice without using drugs
for me or my patients...after 6 years I had a very bad breakdown... one of the main reasons was the development of a severe panic disorder while I was in training to be a psychiatrist....I lost my confidence then... I believe that the taking of psych drugs was damaging to my life... but I survived and here I am...there is hope and help |
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Oct 06, 2018 at 11:14 AM
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Thanks for sharing. You’re an inspiration to many here
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