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#126
Oct 11, 2018, 03:07 PM
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sounds like as is bus |
 Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, Thirty shades, Wild Coyote
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#127
Oct 11, 2018, 03:14 PM
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rohag I only take celexa every day regular... no other psych drugs... but if I get too scared I take a little valium... |
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#128
Oct 12, 2018, 07:35 AM
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i have a mental illness...I have had a serious problem in my life..
I am ashamed...I lay the stigma on myself...others take me down... but I take me down....it is changing...I hope for the better... I am starting to speak up to my wife...she doesn't believe I have a MI.. with my wife I am no longer going to be ashamed or blamed or taken down.. |
| Fuzzybear, Rohag, Thirty shades, Wild Coyote
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#129
Oct 12, 2018, 08:33 AM
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I am going to take the DSM5 and throw it in the trash can...
and then I will get on the AS IS bus... I am sick of all the labels put on us... |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, Rohag, Thirty shades, Wild Coyote
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#130
Oct 12, 2018, 08:42 AM
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 Have you read any Dorothy Rowe? I may have mentioned her before. Where is the as is bus going today?
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| Anonymous44144, little turtle, Rohag, Thirty shades, Wild Coyote
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#131
Oct 12, 2018, 08:44 AM
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It sounds to me like your wife may have a “diagnosis” - like my PUS ... all that blame and shame they try to put on us. Grrrrrrrr
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| Anonymous44144, Anonymous445852, little turtle, Rohag, Thirty shades, Wild Coyote
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#132
Oct 12, 2018, 04:56 PM
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thanks fuzzy... I am going to look up Dorothy rowe... |
| Anonymous44144, Anonymous445852, Fuzzybear, Rohag, Thirty shades, Wild Coyote
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#133
Oct 13, 2018, 04:11 AM
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  (((((( little turtle )))))) Good for you! We can benefit from learning to be more assertive. Sometimes, at least in the beginning, changing a pattern of interaction can be scary and can generate more anxiety. However, it's usually worth it to change hurtful patterns of interactions with those closest to us. It takes courage! I hope you benefit greatly!  WC
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May we each fully claim the courage to live from our hearts, to allow Love, Faith and Hope to enLighten our paths.
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| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, little turtle, Thirty shades
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#134
Oct 13, 2018, 05:20 AM
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thanks wild coyote |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, Thirty shades, Wild Coyote
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#135
Oct 13, 2018, 09:28 AM
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fuzzy---I listened to Dorothy Rowe....I am ordering 2 of her books... I want to read about some of her ideas...I like what she is saying.. |
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#136
Oct 13, 2018, 10:22 AM
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Dorothy Rowe is a very interesting psychologist...
and I just listened to the 19 min ted talk by Kristin Neff on the space between self-esteem and self-compassion... it was very good.....I have very low self esteem...I lost my self-esteem in psychiatry....I was sick and so was psychiatry.. I need to be on the AS IS bus |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, Rohag, Thirty shades, Wild Coyote
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#137
Oct 13, 2018, 10:29 AM
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 I need to be on the AS IS bus where people don’t blame others and ignore the Truth That therapist felt threatened when I mentioned Dorothy Rowe. She doesn’t believe in tossing out ugly, inaccurate, stigmatising labels I can play that labelling game too  He is psychol. NPD ....
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Last edited by Fuzzybear; Oct 13, 2018 at 10:51 AM. |
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#138
Oct 14, 2018, 06:16 AM
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this morning with my wife....
I am paying attention to what she is saying about me... I am paying attention to critical and blame comments... I am trying to point these out without getting angry... this is very hard for me...I am very angry at my wife... not for what she is thinking but what she is saying... |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, Rohag, Thirty shades, Wild Coyote
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#139
Oct 14, 2018, 08:53 AM
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I have also been listening to Dorothy Rowe. Thank you to those who have mentioned this lady. She talks of Hot and Cold Anger. This has left me to think quite hard about anger. I have to admit to hot anger when triggered by abusive situations and people. I wish I had more control. My fight and flight responses seems to kick in, it seems. Anyone had any success catching themselves before talking or shouting with so much emotion? |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, little turtle, Wild Coyote
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#140
Oct 14, 2018, 12:43 PM
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Hot and cold anger, I hadn’t heard of that.. I haven’t read much Dorothy Rowe for a while.
I have difficulty sometimes with PTSD “fight” types / NPD who accuse others of all sorts of stuff that in fact belongs in the “family” of origin, and not in the “object” of their rage Step maternal unit specialises in that. Eff her  
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#142
Oct 15, 2018, 04:13 PM
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There is no excuse for people who attack others. It is hard though for us to truly respond assertively when our emotions are so abused. Do you ever stand up against your PU's Fuzzy?
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| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, little turtle
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#143
Oct 15, 2018, 04:14 PM
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 ((((hugs to you Fuzzy and all other posters))))
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| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, little turtle
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#144
Oct 15, 2018, 04:33 PM
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I agree, it is hard for us to respond assertively when our emotions are so abused. I think a sadistic therapist (in real life) realised this.. its not hard to.. and used me both as a cash cow and to take his rage and indifference out on
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#145
Oct 15, 2018, 05:01 PM
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what happened fuzzy
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#146
Oct 15, 2018, 05:05 PM
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 A GP a while ago asked me if I’d seen a psychiatrist. I may have mentioned this before. I just said “yes” .. (“a while ago”) I don’t trust them Although the GPs give 10 minutes (at the most, usually) and have very little understanding of MI or desire to listen.. at least they haven’t tried to force me to stop the benzos which is about the only thing which is helping me stay somewhat sane since I’m allergic to all the other meds I’ve tried.. and have severe anxiety .. which that idiot of a therapist said I had had for “too long” - the anxiety
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#147
Oct 16, 2018, 03:15 AM
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Cruel professionals... Hugs to you Fuzzy
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| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, little turtle
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#148
Oct 16, 2018, 03:17 AM
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Anger: Hot & Cold Anger & Permanent Life Improvements - Distance Energy Work: energy healing methods |
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#149
Oct 16, 2018, 08:09 AM
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we are all HUMAN BEINGS...
on the AS IS bus... |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, Rohag, Thirty shades
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