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In the last two days, my depression has been very bad. I don't even have appetite to eat, and it's a real struggle to do anything. Why do I have to live like this? It's not like my life is much better other days. I live in this constant psychological anguish. Is it my fault that I feel this way? Do I like pain? Or am I lazy to do anything? I don't know
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I haven't. I don't think medications can change anything. My whole situation (my social, professional, and romantic life) is depressing.
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Hi and welcome to PC, Cold Soul,
I'd have to say, no, it's not your fault you feel this way at all. Experts say it's more to do with brain chemistry and the workings of the mind, etc. Have you spoken with your doctor or a mental health professional about what you're going through? They may be able to help you, one on one, to address your situation. But all the same, it's very good to have you here Cold Soul. Hang in there please, keep reaching out, and again - welcome. |
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I believe many things have led to my depression, from genetic makeup, to childhood trauma, to social anxiety that has led to total social isolation and being unemployed. I haven't seen a professional about depression, but I had before about ADHD, and anxiety. I may consider this option as my life is not progressing in any direction, although I had bad side effects from taking medications before. |
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Are you on any medication?
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I'm so sorry you're struggling, Cold Soul
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Yes, it's always tricky reaching out, and a lot of people on this forum have been in that same boat of feeling minimized & dismissed as well - yes, it's disparaging. I'm the same - very reluctant to share my anxiety & depression struggles with people - for the same reasons as you - but I do find ways of getting my message across in a very generalized way now. I don't worry about giving people the finer details anymore, unless it's a doctor or therapist. But on this site with people who understand, your feelings are completely valid and real - I find validation helpful to my spirit, reassuring. And I relate to your social isolation as well, so you're not alone there Cold Soul. Talking to a therapist can be beneficial. They may suggest ways of moving forward through your issues, so perhaps consider that as an option, Cold Soul. |
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