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Old Mar 23, 2019, 02:13 AM
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Writing a book sounds like a great idea
There’s a quote which says something like “selfishness isn’t doing what you want to do, it’s forcing other people to do what you want..”
I was always accused of being selfish by the selfish family of origin.

That quote is magical I want to steal it for my own "selfish use".

"stuburn girl" now speaking.
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Old Mar 23, 2019, 04:54 AM
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I want to write a book on physics whenever I am able to.
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Old Mar 23, 2019, 08:30 AM
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I want to learn to play the piano “better” Do you play a musical
instrument?
I play the guitar a very little bit as well as the classic flute. I can play a little of Electronic keyboard just by earing the songs, but everything very rudimentar. But my real passion is singing. I do it whenever I am alone (neighbours must hate me). Sometimes I just dream about doing this things and all I think is reality don't let me.
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Old Mar 23, 2019, 08:33 AM
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Thanks for asking fuzzy.

I have two "friends" who sing, make, music of their own and play the guitar. I just wanted to have the guts of be like them.
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Old Mar 23, 2019, 03:11 PM
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Thanks for asking fuzzy.

I have two "friends" who sing, make, music of their own and play the guitar. I just wanted to have the guts of be like them.
“I’m not beautiful like them..
I’m beautiful like me....”

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Old Mar 24, 2019, 05:02 PM
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“I’m not beautiful like them..
I’m beautiful like me....”

Who is that from? If I may ask.
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Old Mar 25, 2019, 05:42 PM
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Who is that from? If I may ask.
A friend said it

I think it’s true for all of us
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Old Mar 25, 2019, 05:45 PM
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I play the guitar a very little bit as well as the classic flute. I can play a little of Electronic keyboard just by earing the songs, but everything very rudimentar. But my real passion is singing. I do it whenever I am alone (neighbours must hate me). Sometimes I just dream about doing this things and all I think is reality don't let me.
Classic flute, guitar, electronic keyboard and singing

I mostly play the piano, I used to play the guitar a bit . And I sing grrrrr
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Old Mar 25, 2019, 05:46 PM
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Love to all on the AS IS bus..

You’re all wonderful, strong, intelligent people

AS IS

(No boring judgments here )
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Old Mar 26, 2019, 01:33 AM
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You are so fuzzy fuzzybear.
It's 6am in the morning. I have to get up in an hour and I am tired as hell. (waked up worrying since 3 am.)
I won't sleep no more because my sister is selfish and as her clock on and on since 5 am. She calls me selfish all the time, but I am not selfish enough. I don’t need her yelling at me and to be her ship. If she allways wants to have the last wise word in the relationship I will show her for now what selfish means and treat her in the same way. I have been kindly helping her dispite my problems and she just wants me to be sillent all the time. No sheep here for now. Sorry sister but it has to be this way, if you don’t have time or patient for my problems for now. I can't have patient for yours, even if you think I don’t have and you are the best sister in the world.
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Old Mar 26, 2019, 01:51 AM
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Told her. Calm and indifferent as a bird... Brrrr
Should have yelled more. (poor thing who has no fault - in her head).
Oh, but I have to be the fault for all her difficulties.
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Old Mar 26, 2019, 07:34 AM
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there was an hbo program yesterday talking about the usa....
it was called ONE NATION UNDER STRESS.....
they got that right...we all suffer with hurt out there everywhere...
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Old Mar 26, 2019, 05:22 PM
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Old Mar 26, 2019, 05:33 PM
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There’s something I can’t post here
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Old Mar 27, 2019, 02:47 AM
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Much love to you Fuzzybear

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Old Mar 27, 2019, 11:46 AM
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I wish I could learn to play my harp. I keep trying but no luck..... I want to write an autobiography but I need help. Someone was going to help me but I guess she's too busy.
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Old Mar 27, 2019, 12:25 PM
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Old Mar 27, 2019, 01:06 PM
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I don’t like posting in threads which are all about “motivation to do things”

It’s my issue my stuff ... and it’s all the doctor “offered” me... of course I know that “doing things” is necessary. Wow. I’ve survived this long and I’m spoken to as if I have zero intelligence. But I get it, I don’t deserve respect from a highly trained professional. Sorry for the rant I’m just feeling... like I wish I could ... something I’m not going to post

BTW the whole point of that statement was to dismiss my concerns. I was not allowed to speak

Much love to all. Feel free to ignore my rant
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Old Mar 27, 2019, 04:11 PM
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My reading of people is more accurate than I would like to think

Who woulda thunk it, the bear...... the bear is a wonderful bear. And no grandiosity here

Or is there

I think some of us have had to develop some “healthy narcissism” in order to survive and to have healthy (happy ) friendships with other lovely bears

Can anyone tell me, why do people with a destructive narcissistic pattern sometimes apparently have so little insight into themselves. I was brought into the world by Narcissists (I guess they were very negative people to me as it turned out as I eventually realised they ONLY care about themselves

(Not about anyone here)
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Old Mar 27, 2019, 11:01 PM
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I don’t like posting in threads which are all about “motivation to do things”

It’s my issue my stuff ... and it’s all the doctor “offered” me... of course I know that “doing things” is necessary. Wow. I’ve survived this long and I’m spoken to as if I have zero intelligence. But I get it, I don’t deserve respect from a highly trained professional. Sorry for the rant I’m just feeling... like I wish I could ... something I’m not going to post

BTW the whole point of that statement was to dismiss my concerns. I was not allowed to speak

Much love to all. Feel free to ignore my rant
Love to you too fuzzy.
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Old Mar 27, 2019, 11:04 PM
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I wish I could learn to play my harp. I keep trying but no luck..... I want to write an autobiography but I need help. Someone was going to help me but I guess she's too busy.
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Old Mar 28, 2019, 03:53 AM
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I am grateful that I am alive.
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Old Mar 28, 2019, 05:24 AM
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I worry about those kind people who put up with me when I am this anxious...

I worry I am having a negative impact on their mental health.

Can't do with me or without me....
I am unable to cope....
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