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Old Mar 20, 2019, 05:59 PM
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May I suggest some very good Mindfulness books?
Search for Dr. Danny penman and Mindfulness. I just think those books are excellent.
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Old Mar 20, 2019, 06:09 PM
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Love to our inner snakes....

Confessions of little turtle with love #3
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Old Mar 20, 2019, 06:27 PM
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Much love and big bear hugs to all on the AS IS Bus
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Little turtle .....
The bus has broken down...
Maybe it’s the “fault” of the driver...

maybe not....
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Old Mar 20, 2019, 08:34 PM
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maybe not....
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Old Mar 21, 2019, 01:28 AM
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Little turtle .....
The bus has broken down...
Maybe it’s the “fault” of the driver...

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Old Mar 21, 2019, 01:29 AM
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Love to all on the AS IS bus.

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Old Mar 21, 2019, 01:31 AM
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Love and hugs to you too, Thirty shades.
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Old Mar 22, 2019, 06:41 AM
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So people. I discovered that besides my histrionic and overcompensating in confidence colleague, my borderline "friend" my tutor is very obsecissive and paranoid. I feel a bit borderline right now because I have to be self centered like them and let everything out. I am drawning in confusion...that is what happens when you don’t believe in yourself, you dont speak up what you think and you let other peoples problems be more important than yours.
Than you let people speak and you hear stuff you don’t want.
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Old Mar 22, 2019, 06:52 AM
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How messed up you are and how you shouldn't let messed up people in your life. That's a book I would read.
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Old Mar 22, 2019, 08:12 AM
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How messed up you are and how you shouldn't let messed up people in your life. That's a book I would read.


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Old Mar 22, 2019, 11:38 AM
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If I could write a book it'd be surely on physics.
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Old Mar 22, 2019, 02:56 PM
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There is no doubt that I have mental illness.

My GP and other dr's at the surgery have written letters to confirm my list of conditions....

Someone in an office has found that I have no mental illness despite never meeting me and reading professional's letters.

I know I am unfit to work. This person in the office is also unfit to do their job.....

Not all professionals are bad, the UK benefits system is not fit for purpose....

I am not the only one unfit to work!
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Old Mar 22, 2019, 04:38 PM
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“Unfit” to work..

“Benefits” system.. where is the “benefit” in their “opinions”

Everyone has an opinion and an A hole

I don’t know..but you surely deserve the money.

I will not post my opinion of this **** and the burocrazy here...

Much love to you (rain3)

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There is no doubt that I have mental illness.

My GP and other dr's at the surgery have written letters to confirm my list of conditions....

Someone in an office has found that I have no mental illness despite never meeting me and reading professional's letters.

I know I am unfit to work. This person in the office is also unfit to do their job.....

Not all professionals are bad, the UK benefits system is not fit for purpose....

I am not the only one unfit to work!
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Old Mar 22, 2019, 07:02 PM
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So people. I discovered that besides my histrionic and overcompensating in confidence colleague, my borderline "friend" my tutor is very obsecissive and paranoid. I feel a bit borderline right now because I have to be self centered like them and let everything out. I am drawning in confusion...that is what happens when you don’t believe in yourself, you dont speak up what you think and you let other peoples problems be more important than yours.
Than you let people speak and you hear stuff you don’t want.
I have some “friends” (irl) who sound similar ..

Yes it’s necessary to let things out. Or even be “selfish” or to be accused of that by people who ... can’t own their own selfishness. We are also humans

Their problems are NOT more important than ours....

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Old Mar 22, 2019, 08:25 PM
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Old Mar 22, 2019, 08:27 PM
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Old Mar 22, 2019, 09:13 PM
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I have some “friends” (irl) who sound similar ..

Yes it’s necessary to let things out. Or even be “selfish” or to be accused of that by people who ... can’t own their own selfishness. We are also humans

Their problems are NOT more important than ours....

Amazing advice.
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Old Mar 22, 2019, 09:22 PM
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Being selfish and self-centered again. I would love to write a book. I have no idea if someone would like it...but sometimes I have ideas. Something melodramatic, methaphoric with an autobiographic touch. It's stupid, but It's a dream I have. As it is having singing lessons and better learn how to play Music... Once again dreams I feel afraid to share in real life. I need validation so much it is so stupid.
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Old Mar 22, 2019, 09:49 PM
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Church and religion hurted me so much. Chatholical south european church style, I know its a sensitive topic, but I hate the oppression I felt while growing up, the rituals without mening, the lack of congruence bettween the writings and the behaviours of the followers. I was never given a choice, I was beaten, I was emotionaly abused by the church followers. Nobody never wanted to know my opinion, being taugh by my father that church is "wrong" and at the same time by my mother that church is a duty of a "good" girl... Just so you know I am a full catholic complete all 12years of sunday school. I don’t mind the concept of religion and I get fascinated by religious art and how people through out the world live religion. But I hate very much what my experience as thought and that certainly would get in a book of mine.
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Old Mar 22, 2019, 10:02 PM
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Church and religion hurted me so much. Chatholical south european church style, I know its a sensitive topic, but I hate the oppression I felt while growing up, the rituals without mening, the lack of congruence bettween the writings and the behaviours of the followers. I was never given a choice, I was beaten, I was emotionaly abused by the church followers. Nobody never wanted to know my opinion, being taugh by my father that church is "wrong" and at the same time by my mother that church is a duty of a "good" girl... Just so you know I am a full catholic complete all 12years of sunday school. I don’t mind the concept of religion and I get fascinated by religious art and how people through out the world live religion. But I hate very much what my experience as thought and that certainly would get in a book of mine.
Very confusing and hurtful ...

I can relate to being subjected to lack of congruence between writings and behaviours

Papa bear was brought up a Catholic...

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Old Mar 22, 2019, 10:11 PM
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Being selfish and self-centered again. I would love to write a book. I have no idea if someone would like it...but sometimes I have ideas. Something melodramatic, methaphoric with an autobiographic touch. It's stupid, but It's a dream I have. As it is having singing lessons and better learn how to play Music... Once again dreams I feel afraid to share in real life. I need validation so much it is so stupid.
Writing a book sounds like a great idea

There’s a quote which says something like “selfishness isn’t doing what you want to do, it’s forcing other people to do what you want..”

I was always accused of being selfish by the selfish family of origin.

I want to learn to play the piano “better” Do you play a musical
instrument?

It’s not stupid to need validation. It’s wise to be careful who we share our dreams with ...

I do believe this bear may have learnt the “true” meaning of “Wisdom”
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I’m not perfect
Even I am not perfect. Well I don't worry over being perfect. I know I got to accept myself AS IS. You all here taught me this. Thank you.
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