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Old Apr 06, 2019, 02:26 PM
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“I don’t think we gel”.....

Or .. more emphatically. As they are .. always .... right

“We do not gel” .........



This is used re human interactions which are (apparently) .....
Not “disastrous” .... “just” ... unmixable....
pondering to self...
Why SO MANY interactions with “professionals” in this forest...
“Do not gel” - at best...
They do not listen..
They do not understand..
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Old Apr 06, 2019, 03:36 PM
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Old Apr 06, 2019, 04:11 PM
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“I don’t think we gel”.....

Or .. more emphatically. As they are .. always .... right

“We do not gel” .........



This is used re human interactions which are (apparently) .....
Not “disastrous” .... “just” ... unmixable....
pondering to self...
Why SO MANY interactions with “professionals” in this forest...
“Do not gel” - at best...
They do not listen..
They do not understand..


A regular problem.... Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Getting people especially professionals to understand how life is for us....

We all share experiences
We get labels...

It would be nice if they could understand us
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Old Apr 06, 2019, 04:57 PM
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A regular problem.... Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Getting people especially professionals to understand how life is for us....

We all share experiences
We get labels...

It would be nice if they could understand us
it’s almost as if they are gaslighting us :-(

Some of them pretend to “care”

But all they “give” is labels

No wonder some of us become “negative” at times in self defence

We are TRUE

We are AS IS

I’d rather have a friend who is “negative” than someone who tries to force fake “positivity” with an intent to create pain and division.

They label..

They divide... all those labels

(Not about anyone on pc)
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Old Apr 07, 2019, 03:11 AM
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it’s almost as if they are gaslighting us :-(

Some of them pretend to “care”

But all they “give” is labels

No wonder some of us become “negative” at times in self defence

We are TRUE

We are AS IS

I’d rather have a friend who is “negative” than someone who tries to force fake “positivity” with an intent to create pain and division.

They label..

They divide... all those labels

(Not about anyone on pc)
Another

I had not thought of it that way. You are a wise bear....

They are gaslighting us. A big trigger for me.....

And negative is true....

Positive when not heartfelt is untrue, not acceptance, not love....
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Old Apr 07, 2019, 06:06 PM
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Anyone heard of the Crappy childhood fairy.....

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Old Apr 07, 2019, 06:15 PM
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I had not thought of it that way. You are a wise bear....

They are gaslighting us. A big trigger for me.....

And negative is true....

Positive when not heartfelt is untrue, not acceptance, not love....
Good post
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Old Apr 07, 2019, 06:17 PM
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Anyone heard of the Crappy childhood fairy.....

I hadn’t heard of this, thanks for posting it

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Old Apr 07, 2019, 08:28 PM
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Hi everyone on the "as is" bus.
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Once you are real, you can't become unreal again. It lasts for always....
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Old Apr 08, 2019, 04:01 AM
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Hi everyone on the "as is" bus.
Hi Calla Lily

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Old Apr 08, 2019, 09:59 AM
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it looks like the AS-IS bus is involved in BEAUTY AND TRUTH AND GOODNESS...
I am reading some of CARL ROGERS stuff....I am thinking about seeing a psychologist..
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Old Apr 08, 2019, 12:18 PM
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Do see a psychologist LT.

I am awed by the beauty of the nature. So much I want to write a book on it. When I get into MSc, I hopefully will complete the dream.
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Old Apr 08, 2019, 01:21 PM
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Much love to all...
Who appreciate beauty and truth and goodness
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Old Apr 09, 2019, 03:46 AM
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I wish the whole world was full of beauty and truth and goodness .....

Much love to all passengers on the AS IS bus
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Old Apr 09, 2019, 07:17 AM
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[I am what I am...and that's all that I am..
i'm popeye the sailor man]

I remember this from long ago
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Old Apr 09, 2019, 08:01 AM
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I am dealing now with my own decline both mentally and physically...
I am coming up to 88yo...I don't want to leave life...it has been awful at times..
but there have been some damn good times...I don't want to die...
I am mostly sad and angry about dying...I am working on it...
because fighting it is not going anywhere good...

and I do not believe in resurrection...
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Old Apr 09, 2019, 02:53 PM
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I am dealing now with my own decline both mentally and physically...
I am coming up to 88yo...I don't want to leave life...it has been awful at times..
but there have been some damn good times...I don't want to die...
I am mostly sad and angry about dying...I am working on it...
because fighting it is not going anywhere good...

and I do not believe in resurrection...
little turtle

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Old Apr 09, 2019, 05:21 PM
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I wish the whole world was full of beauty and truth and goodness .....

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Old Apr 10, 2019, 06:10 AM
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I have a mental illness.....and all the treatments helped but didn't wash it away..
it is still there ...better but still lurking in the background...probably some ptsd...
and I have no idea what caused it...
and I didn't ask for it...and it was not good..
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Old Apr 10, 2019, 11:00 AM
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Old Apr 10, 2019, 01:04 PM
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Confessions of little turtle with love #3
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Old Apr 10, 2019, 05:23 PM
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Old Apr 10, 2019, 07:02 PM
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It’s been a rough day gggrrrrrrrrrrr

I’m grateful for true friends on the as is bus

Love always
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Old Apr 10, 2019, 09:10 PM
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Little turtle, do you have all the answers? I don’t think you claim that. This is why you’re wiser than many. Love to all.
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Old Apr 11, 2019, 02:20 AM
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It’s been a rough day gggrrrrrrrrrrr

I’m grateful for true friends on the as is bus

Love always
I am sorry your day has been rough.

I am glad you are here on the bus

Much love to you and all passengers
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