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Old Sep 07, 2020, 10:20 AM
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Old Sep 07, 2020, 12:44 PM
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So true LT.

Reconnecting with myself can send the grrrrrrr away for a short while....
My problem, Thirty shades, is that when I reconnect with myself, I find myself "wanting". That is, unsatisfactory. Imperfect, a failure, etc etc
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Old Sep 07, 2020, 04:44 PM
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My problem, Thirty shades, is that when I reconnect with myself, I find myself "wanting". That is, unsatisfactory. Imperfect, a failure, etc etc
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Old Sep 07, 2020, 06:52 PM
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Confessions of little turtle with love #5

love and respect to all on the as is bus
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Old Sep 08, 2020, 06:21 AM
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Feeling hopeless....and sad....and lonely
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Old Sep 08, 2020, 07:28 AM
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Old Sep 08, 2020, 07:37 AM
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Feeling hopeless....and sad....and lonely

me too...sorry for you...
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Old Sep 08, 2020, 07:39 AM
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my wife is mad at me....i am upset yet again...
what a relationship this has been...
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Old Sep 08, 2020, 08:45 AM
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mimi i also need to say i have a spouse...
and i am very angry at her...angry ...angry
i am trying to follow the golden rule...
i am not talking to her right now because i would say some not nice things
other than that who knows
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Old Sep 08, 2020, 08:57 AM
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i am doing ok with my recent fight...
i am trying very hard to follow the golden rule...
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Old Sep 08, 2020, 10:57 AM
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I feel quite ''hopeless'' and sad and lonely.

But I am not ''hopeless''

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Old Sep 08, 2020, 10:58 AM
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i am doing ok with my recent fight...
i am trying very hard to follow the golden rule...
Does that work for you little turtle? I have found that people who actually are abusive (as opposed to being/feeling angry, triggered etc) often do not change

Nevertheless, I do try to follow the ''golden rule''

I believe that everyone deserves compassion (hard to ''live'' that when some people are just flat out mean, and there are so many mean people in the world. ugh. I wish I could hibernate
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my wife is mad at me....i am upset yet again...
what a relationship this has been...
I'm sorry little turtle, that stinks that she keeps getting mad at you. I know how hard you try to be kind and patient. You deserve the same love and respect in return
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Old Sep 08, 2020, 11:03 AM
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mimi i also need to say i have a spouse...
and i am very angry at her...angry ...angry
i am trying to follow the golden rule...
i am not talking to her right now because i would say some not nice things
other than that who knows
I feel very GRRRRRR at your wife...

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Old Sep 08, 2020, 11:45 AM
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''I am not talking to her right now because I would say some not nice things''

I am not ''a bad person'' because I did not fully realise that at the age of 17. My PUS were NEGLIGENT

What bear cub could become a ''full adult'' at the age of 17 having been FORCIBLY SILENCED most of their life
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Old Sep 09, 2020, 03:15 PM
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i have been thinking about the golden rule...
how do people like to be treated....with kindness

so how do i treat myself...........not ok
maybe it would help if i could start with ok AS IS
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Old Sep 09, 2020, 04:52 PM
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what is this compassion that people talk about
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Old Sep 09, 2020, 05:00 PM
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what is this compassion that people talk about
Good post dear little turtle

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Old Sep 09, 2020, 05:01 PM
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i have been thinking about the golden rule...
how do people like to be treated....with kindness

so how do i treat myself...........not ok
maybe it would help if i could start with ok AS IS
I am very grateful for this bus where people LISTEN

much love and respect to all on the bus, AS IS
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hugs and respect to you dear Thirty shades, and to all on the bus
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Old Sep 09, 2020, 05:29 PM
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Thank you for this thread and to all the wonderful people who listen
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what is this compassion that people talk about
Can you tell me little turtle? What is this compassion?

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Confessions of little turtle with love #5
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Old Sep 10, 2020, 06:03 AM
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Confessions of little turtle with love #5
excellent
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