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Old Jun 18, 2020, 04:28 PM
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can you say more rohag
My mother was depressed
She did not care for having an upset baby
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Old Jun 18, 2020, 04:30 PM
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Compassion is missing from the world...
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Old Jun 18, 2020, 05:26 PM
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Compassion is missing from the world...
YES yes yes
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Old Jun 19, 2020, 04:53 AM
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Compassion is missing from the world...
Good post dear Thirty shades

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Old Jun 19, 2020, 04:56 AM
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My mother was depressed
She did not care for having an upset baby
I can relate, my mother was also depressed and did not care for me when I was upset as a baby.

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Old Jun 19, 2020, 07:09 AM
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Old Jun 19, 2020, 12:40 PM
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Friggin' world.....

It seems to make so much difference to a person's well-being if they feel loved and wanted by their parents, and it's such a crap-shoot.
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Old Jun 19, 2020, 02:16 PM
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Friggin' world.....

It seems to make so much difference to a person's well-being if they feel loved and wanted by their parents, and it's such a crap-shoot.

yes me too.....
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Old Jun 19, 2020, 05:01 PM
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when i was seriously depressed it was like being in hell...
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Old Jun 19, 2020, 06:47 PM
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Friggin' world.....

It seems to make so much difference to a person's well-being if they feel loved and wanted by their parents, and it's such a crap-shoot.
Hugs and respect to all

So true.....
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Old Jun 19, 2020, 06:48 PM
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when i was seriously depressed it was like being in hell...
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Old Jun 19, 2020, 06:52 PM
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this world...i can't stand it
what aren't you managing TS
This world ... I can’t stand it. Grrrrrr good post little turtle

You have a way with words, without using very many words

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I send empathy and respect re the ****ed upness in this word. WHY do they irl not listen

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Old Jun 19, 2020, 06:57 PM
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My mother did not like me from birth.
This is also true for me. Grrrrrrrr

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Old Jun 19, 2020, 06:58 PM
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I am not managing life...

Life is a challenge
I am not compatible with this world.

If only I was normal
I’m sending hugs and respect.

Normal...

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Old Jun 20, 2020, 03:05 AM
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This is also true for me. Grrrrrrrr

Much love and respect to you and your cub and snake dear Thirty shades
We missed out on essential nurturing.

Much love and respect to you and your cub and snake dear Fuzzybear.
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Old Jun 20, 2020, 03:10 AM
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I am not one mental illness.

I have multiple mental health conditions.

I'm just trying to get through life with all the challenges that brings.

Sorry world, I cannot be a normal person, I am just me.
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Old Jun 20, 2020, 08:27 AM
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It seems to make so much difference to a person's well-being if they feel loved and wanted by their parents....
I believe this is true. I speculate my birth socially locked my mother into an unhappy marriage, a marriage that did not meet her immature expectations. That, as well as other things, greatly affected her relationship - or non-relationship - with the infant and young me.
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Old Jun 20, 2020, 03:08 PM
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I believe this is true. I speculate my birth socially locked my mother into an unhappy marriage, a marriage that did not meet her immature expectations. That, as well as other things, greatly affected her relationship - or non-relationship - with the infant and young me.
I’m very grateful to all the kind, respectful people here...
who are able to offer respect and love...
Despite their “illness” and abusers who loved to harm them...including in very early childhood
Abusers enjoy harming others.
I will never understand that

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I am not one mental illness.

I have multiple mental health conditions.

I'm just trying to get through life with all the challenges that brings.

Sorry world, I cannot be a normal person, I am just me.
I am NOT A MENTAL ILLNESS

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Old Jun 20, 2020, 04:26 PM
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Much respect, love and hugs to you little turtle, fuzzy, thirty shades, rohag, mopey and everyone else on this AS IS bus.
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Old Jun 21, 2020, 01:28 PM
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We missed out on essential nurturing.

Much love and respect to you and your cub and snake dear Fuzzybear.
Do you suppose it is possible to learn to nurture ourselves? Somehow?
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Old Jun 22, 2020, 02:16 AM
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Do you suppose it is possible to learn to nurture ourselves? Somehow?
I believe that we can work on this, I have tried in the past..

I don't feel we can ever fully repair the damage done in the past. Too many layers of hurt to repair.
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Old Jun 22, 2020, 09:50 AM
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maybe you can do something about the trauma and hurt...
i don't think you can change what actually happened to you...
but you can now choose to attack yourself or hug yourself when the hurt is there...
and you can blame others but that may not work as well as attending to the

little kid that was hurt so badly and couldn't defend
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