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Old Mar 31, 2022, 10:57 AM
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I wish there were a local Agoraphobic group to go out and do things together with. That way we would all know we feel the same and could support each other. Agoraphobics Unite!
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Old Mar 31, 2022, 05:58 PM
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Daily check in thread:Ups and Downs #30
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Old Mar 31, 2022, 08:16 PM
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Starting therapy is a good first step to feeling better. Self-care is another step. You can self-care by getting the rest you need, taking the meds you need, pacing yourself, setting boundaries, finding some of your favorite things to do in safe spaces and doing them, reaching out for social support from validating friends and family, etc.

For coping skills, that will take a trained therapist to help you figure out which ones will work best with what you're dealing with.

For medical or neurological issues, a psychiatrist will help you figure out what can assist with you feeling better.

I hope you feel better soon, but in the meantime, I hope you hang in there.

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Thank you. I will be started therapy soon.
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Old Apr 02, 2022, 07:42 PM
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A very busy day with cleaning in the morning. After lunch I did little things like;
cleaned and replaced filters on the water distiller, changed a filter on Britta, and did some online ordering. I normally don't purchase online but I purchased a couple of things because they cannot be found here locally.

Feeling OK today. A couple of days ago I found a 1942 Quarter while bike riding. I got a good cash offer for it.

Today I was able to squeeze in a one hour bike ride. It's been wet outside for most of the day with drizzle.
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Old Apr 02, 2022, 10:08 PM
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I am in bed way too much. I basically haven't left my bedroom today. The funny thing is that I don't feel depressed emotionally. I do know that this is a form of depression, even though I feel mentally content. It's gone on too long. It has just gotten worse and worse - this not wanting to go anywhere or do anything. I just read and watch cable TV and YouTube videos. I do eat just fine.

I can't seem to resume normal activity. I've wondered what kind of treatment might help me. I doubt anything would.
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Old Apr 02, 2022, 10:13 PM
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It's been very hard for me lately & it hurts a lot.
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Old Apr 03, 2022, 04:56 PM
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I had SAD for 16 years and now I seem to have the opposite issue. This sun setting at 9PM is not working out for me like it used to. I also like my jeans and hoodies more then my shorts and T shirts.
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Old Apr 04, 2022, 02:25 PM
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I feel like both this site and my doctor are screwing me over for no reason. I've been waiting nonstop all day for stuff to be approved and for my doctor to call back and nothing has happened all day. I literally just took a shower because I was bored and had nothing else to do. Plus our tap water makes my anxiety super high and no amount of meds makes it better. It just has to run its course. But hey, after 11 days my weight is finally dropping and I can finally wear button shirts since my shoulders match my hips now.
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Old Apr 05, 2022, 12:57 AM
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I am working now. The job is keeping me busy. Seems like I work all hours of the day, but I am taking some down time now. I will cook and play games. It's good to be working.
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Old Apr 08, 2022, 08:49 AM
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I'm glad the job is working out, Deilla. I'm sorry, Mountaindewed, that your doctor & this site have not been there for you. I feel some guilt about that because I don't post sometimes. I've been having a hard time myself. But I seem to be doing a little bit better today so far.
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Old Apr 08, 2022, 10:18 AM
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I'm trying not to start catastrophizing. I am heading out of town and my laptop just broke. I spent a few hours seeing if I could fix it but I think I need to order parts. I need to just start setting up a spare and move on.
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Old Apr 08, 2022, 10:55 AM
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I'm stressed today and very sad. I don't feel like doing anything. It's my day off and I just want to sleep all day.
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Old Apr 09, 2022, 06:05 PM
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When I was in school and poor, I used to get a tax refund. Now that I'm out of school and poor, I owe taxes! Seems like career progress or something.
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Old Apr 10, 2022, 06:41 AM
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I'm feeling better today and think it's related to the weather being less gloomy than it has been for a few days.
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Old Apr 14, 2022, 01:11 AM
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Insomnia, pain, dread, too tired, sad. Games here help a little bit.
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Old Apr 14, 2022, 04:11 AM
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Today is my day off. I plan to relax. I'm in good spirits.
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Old Apr 14, 2022, 10:53 AM
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I'm just not keeping up with stuff.
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Old Apr 15, 2022, 02:40 AM
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I'm just not keeping up with stuff.
Same here, especially taxes that are now due... thankfully not on Friday, but Monday (4/18). Always a fun job to figure out how much I owe this time for no good reason.
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Old Apr 15, 2022, 09:20 PM
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Today was a bad day for me. I'm not doing good at all.
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Old Apr 15, 2022, 10:38 PM
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I have almost zero energy. This isn't the depression anymore, at least not just that. I had covid last november and i've felt drained and my memory seems worse.
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I have almost zero energy. This isn't the depression anymore, at least not just that. I had covid last november and i've felt drained and my memory seems worse.
Hi @Violetta75 I am sorry you are feeling drained. One thing I have learned from experience and from studies I have read, is depression diminishes the ability to remember things.

Just my hunch but maybe this is a defense mechanism to keep me from remembering traumatic events.
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Old Apr 16, 2022, 02:32 PM
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Another day of feeling glued to the bed. I keep falling asleep. I need help.
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Old Apr 16, 2022, 03:38 PM
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Depressed is an understatement.
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Old Apr 17, 2022, 01:46 AM
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Physical pain, depressed, grieving. Just when you think you can't go any lower, you find a whole new level of misery.

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Old Apr 17, 2022, 08:14 PM
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Take it easy on yourself. Writing take time and lots of practices.
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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