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Apr 21, 2008, 09:17 PM
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What's new? I still hate my life. For whatever reason. Everything that happens to me just makes it worse. And it's not going to stop. There's nothing I can do about it right now.
I don't even know what to say, I just want someone to say something back I guess. I'm not supposed to talk about certain things here, but I'm feeling them. It's been under consideration. I'm too much of a coward to do that though. Even if it would solve things. |
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Apr 21, 2008, 09:26 PM
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(((((((((((((((Bluesguy))))))))))))))))))))
 I'm sorry you are feeling so down right now. I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better.
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#3
Apr 21, 2008, 09:26 PM
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Hey bluesguy... sorry you are feeling this way.
Talking helps you know, and I assure you that were all understanding here babyg xxx
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Apr 21, 2008, 09:31 PM
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I don't know what to say. I wish it would end, but it won't. So there's no point wishing about it. You can all wish I'd feel better, but that doesn't do anything.
I'm destined to be hated by everyone, tortured by everything, and burdened by life. |
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#5
Apr 21, 2008, 11:13 PM
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it doesnt seem we hate you Bluesguy...
i'm glad to see you posting again |
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#6
Apr 22, 2008, 03:59 AM
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((((((((((Bluesguy))))))))))))) I don't think anyone here hates you. I certainly dont.
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#7
Apr 22, 2008, 04:04 AM
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Thinking of you, Bluesguy. I don't hate you. I am not sure how to be encouraging to you because I am feeling quite low myself, but I did want to send you a (((HUG))) . - Beth
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#8
Apr 22, 2008, 06:18 PM
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Hey bluesguy
 I've missed ya, i'm glad you came back! Although of course i wish too that you didn't have too.
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#9
Apr 22, 2008, 06:30 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
Bluesguy said: I'm destined to be hated by everyone, tortured by everything, and burdened by life. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I have felt this way too in my life Bluesguy. It is a terrible feeling. But one day when I was feeling this way a great man asked me to give him an example of me being hated. I found that I had a hard time filling his request. I was creating the hate somehow. Most people didn't even know me...how could they hate me... Then he asked me to give some examples of how people loved me... It was hard to admit because I had comitted myself to the hate theme...but there were many folks who cared about me and only wished me the very best. If someone asks you this question..please put me on your list...you are a seeker and you are looking for something. I like that about people and you may find that you are cared about far more than you first realized... Please take care.. Lenny
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#10
Apr 22, 2008, 08:20 PM
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(((((((((((( Bluesguy ))))))))))))))
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Apr 22, 2008, 08:22 PM
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((((Bluesguy)))) i don't hate you 
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#12
Apr 22, 2008, 08:41 PM
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Boy have I felt like that! Is there anything you want to talk about? It's ok to vent or rant or talk...whatever you'd like to do. We're here for you.
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#13
Apr 26, 2008, 05:59 PM
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I'm just a %#@&#! reject. I can't handle it anymore. I don't know what to do. I have a lot of work to get done all the time too. The kind of work that will somehow make my life fulfilling later. It's hard to do though, when I'm completely depressed and I'd rather not live life than live for the long time I have left.
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Apr 26, 2008, 06:02 PM
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Buesguy.. a lot of us have felt awful before... dont hate yourself for feeling badly.. that only makes it worse... youve had some bad days, we all do, give yourself a break.. you're working on it.. thats good....
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Apr 26, 2008, 06:20 PM
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Bluesguy, I know how difficult it is to feel motivated when depression is so overpowering. So many people tell you that you are loved and special, and it is true, but the challenge is in feeling special to yourself.
If you could ask for some help from a loved one to get things on track, it might help to disspell the immediate stresses. Keep talking in here and there are so many people who are happy to have you here. I am feeling the same self shaming thoughts right now. It helps to know though that others feel sad with you. (((((((((((((((Bluesguy))))))))))))))) 
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Apr 26, 2008, 06:31 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
Bluesguy said: I'm destined to be hated by everyone, tortured by everything, and burdened by life. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Bluesguy... why do you feel you are destined to be hated my everyone?? Just remember, even though at times like this, we feel alone, but so many others in this world have felt like this too. You probably hate your life because you are looking at the negative side of it all... what harm could it do to look at the positive side for once?? I know at times like these you might feel that there absolutely is no positive side... but you just need to look closer. We've all been there. I hope you soon come out from your dark spot. And you mentioned about your work... why not concentrate on that instead of your depression?? It will be good to try and take your mind off things. Hope things look up for you soon, feel free to talk to me anytime babyg xxx
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Apr 28, 2008, 11:30 PM
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i think the only thing i can say is that you're not alone. we're all here for you. i've felt this way before, and believe it or not, you're really not hated.
"You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience by which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.” - Eleanor Roosevelt
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#18
Apr 28, 2008, 11:44 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
Bluesguy said: What's new? I still hate my life. For whatever reason. Everything that happens to me just makes it worse. And it's not going to stop. There's nothing I can do about it right now. I don't even know what to say, I just want someone to say something back I guess. I'm not supposed to talk about certain things here, but I'm feeling them. It's been under consideration. I'm too much of a coward to do that though. Even if it would solve things. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Sorry to hear that, dude. Everything passes in time. Just do your best and this'll pass too. In the meantime, I suggest querying "family guy" at YouTube and watching till your eyes burn. 
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Apr 29, 2008, 07:33 AM
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((((bluesguy))))
I do not dislike you either. I admire your honesty. Keep posting. I have been trying some comic relief for my depression lately, as Edahm suggests to you, and it does help a bit. You are cared about here. Peace. Nightbird
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