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May 09, 2008, 07:11 PM
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My daughter -in-law and son had a big fight last nite and today i got an e-mail from her just balling me out and calling me names and telling me all this crazy stuff. i am so depressed about this because i don't even know what they were fighting over. apparently as much as i can guess, it is because my son bought me some groceries and she didn't like it. she told me that her husband, my son, was not my boyfriend or lover or husband. he was her husband and i would have to live w/that. what the hell? when have i ever, ever said anything like that and acted any way other than a mother and grand mother. i have no one to talk to except my T and i don't see her till tuesday. i have to go all week-end upset about this thing. it's mothers day and i don't know what my mom is going to do or if my sister is going to take her out. i just can't believe this has happened. i thought we were getting along so well. i couldn't find my son for 3 years. i looked and looked and now i have him back and this happens. i just don't know what to do anymore. i've tried and tried. they have both gone w/me to therapy and they still don't care. i just have no one anymore. and how can one live so long by themselves when they need love and compassion.pj56
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May 09, 2008, 07:14 PM
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try to remember the race is not over til its been run ((pj)) these are very hard times for you... allow yourself to pass thru them to the other side that you dream of... sometimes a dream is all there is to carry us along pj, i wish the best for you
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May 09, 2008, 08:11 PM
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 PJ I'm sorry she was so mean to you! That was just uncalled for. Your son is grown and if he wants to buy his mother some groceries, then it is totally up to him. I wonder if she is threatened by the closeness you and he are sharing? I don't know, just guessing on that one. I hope things go better for you. BJ
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May 09, 2008, 08:16 PM
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(((jan))) I think about those words often:
</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font> how can one live so long by themselves when they need love and compassion. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Day by day is how I do it.
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May 09, 2008, 09:07 PM
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((((((((((((((((( pj56 ))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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May 09, 2008, 09:19 PM
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I know how much family problems can really bring you down. My kids aren't with me right now they are still fairly young and I miss being a full time mom. My dad tells me to just think positive, but I don't know if he realizes how tough that can be.
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May 09, 2008, 09:47 PM
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Maybe things will settle down. Hope is all we have sometime.
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May 10, 2008, 07:47 PM
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(((PJ)))
Happy Mothers' Day!!! Hope you find something nice to do for yourself!!! _ _ _ (sorry about the distress you are feeling over your sons unhappiness. I do understand the loneliness and the helpless feelings that go along with such a disconnect. while it can be disorienting, you can fast forward, like NTR said, and dream your way through to better days ... if we use imagery as a map, we can chart a better future from this moment, not one day or month ago, but this minute on ... I try to practice this, sometimes it helps) xoxoxoxo 
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May 11, 2008, 07:23 AM
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(((((((((((((( pj ))))))))))))))))
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May 11, 2008, 08:22 AM
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You know I have a sister who says mean things to my mom when she is mad and it hurts me to see her say such negative things when my mother has done soooo soooo much for all of us, going above and beyond and always putting us first.
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