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Old Jul 10, 2008, 06:38 PM
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I just want to tell everyone that I apologize for not being faithful and supportive to everyone. I have been so "to" myself that I just haven't had the want to support others. I guess I have been selfish in that way and I want all of you to know that I don't mean to do this. It's just the way my illness affects me I guess. I love you all and will try to do better.....pj56...xxoo
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Old Jul 10, 2008, 06:43 PM
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No need to apologize, taking care of yourself is not selfish.
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Old Jul 10, 2008, 06:44 PM
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It is OK.

I don't think you need apologize. We have all had times when communication was difficult.

All of us know you care and when you are able will offer us your wisdom and support.

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Old Jul 10, 2008, 07:18 PM
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You don't need to apologize for taking the time you need to take of yourself. One of the best bits of wisom that I've kept from one of my old mentors is that in order to take care of others, we first must make sure to take care of ourselves. Take all the time you need, and we'll help you along the way. I'm sure you'll be back to helping others in no time! I apologize

Take care of yourself,

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Old Jul 11, 2008, 06:56 AM
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it's alright Jan, as the others have already said, no need to feel this way.

If you take care of yourself, then you are in a better position to help others.
What is selfish about that?

If you ask me, you are so smart and delightful, I'll be glad you are back around when you are ready for my own selfish reasons. See the difference?

you are loved and missed, Dear Person, so take the time you need, the healing coming your way, and then share some pearls with us when you are ready, ok?

love,
night

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Old Jul 11, 2008, 03:59 PM
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Old Jul 11, 2008, 08:46 PM
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I've felt the same way about myself--seeking support from others but not always returning the favor.

We all have moments when we cry out for others and when we're stronger, we can pass it forward to those in need!

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Old Jul 11, 2008, 09:59 PM
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We all have times when we just can't support others the way we'd like to. No need to apologize.
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No need to apologize, glad you could post something.

How are you doing now?

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Old Jul 12, 2008, 12:11 PM
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No need to appologise at all ..... you are wonderful and entitled to look after you sweetie, love you, Jinny xoxoxoxoxoxo
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Old Jul 12, 2008, 02:28 PM
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No need for words, just sending ((((( hugs )))))

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