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Jul 11, 2008, 07:27 AM
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I was meeting a friend for a few days. Was hoping it will help my mood getting better since my depression slowly went worse. The first day was fun. I gotten his attention we did fun stuff. Next day we went to see a girl he met a couple of days before and from that moment things went bad. I gotten no attention from both of them, they were talking all the time with eachother and I was left somewhere back, making just small comments, trying to make a joke or something...the next day he was mainly concerned with his own matters and I was left for myself. Today I came back home.
I was crying a lot, he knew I was feeling bad but didn't address it and mostly was silent towards me.. *sighs* I have no idea what to do with myself...there is a lot of vacation left and I'm again in my room alone without any ideas..I just give up.. |
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Jul 11, 2008, 12:23 PM
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Could you have not told him how you felt? Sometimes people are afraid to address whats in front their eyes.
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Jul 11, 2008, 12:46 PM
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I did tell him. He denied in doing anything wrong
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Jul 11, 2008, 01:42 PM
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Then I would take a look at what you feel consitutes a "friend"? and the kind of people we want in our lifes? Hope you feel better soon.
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Jul 11, 2008, 02:02 PM
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thanks..
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#6
Jul 12, 2008, 09:21 AM
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wow...thanks EVERYONE for the support
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Jul 12, 2008, 10:58 AM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
Mouse_ said: Then I would take a look at what you feel consitutes a "friend"? and the kind of people we want in our lifes? Hope you feel better soon. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> its sounds like you are looking for a friend who has more care and consideration for you... we all want that from our friends i believe... the other half of the coin is that we accept that our friends also prefer to be treated with kindness and consideration.... in a fair deal, we sometimes feel obligated to reciprocate... but in truth, it is not 'obligation' as the word 'obligation' is commonly misunderstood... it is a bonding of trust that develops over time... wishing you the best always 
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