very depressed...

I asked.. my T... if there is any point in coming into therapy... when I am so depressed... and he.. said.. "yes"..

I disagree....

and.. I say what for?????

2 of my son's friend's were just killed.. the 3rd on life support... 24 yrs old.... 2 separate accidents...this weekend... have known these boys.. since they were in grade school....

just do not understand....the why????????

{{{{{{Freewill}}}}}}}
The "why" I do not know. But what I do know is that sometimes it helps to talk rather than to hold it all inside. Putting words to the pain, the frustrations, the tears. Letting others know you care about what happened, you care about those boys, you care about your son. My words offer little comfort, but I'm a good listener if you need one.
Einna

Dear Freewill--
Yes, the therapy is good for you, though you may not realize it for a while. I am so sorry about the losses in your life. I know this is hard for you. Keep going. Listen to your T. God be with you--

(freewill)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
SO sorry you are having a hard time
I am so very sorry for your losses
please know i care
Muffy

((((((((((((((((((((freewill)))))))))))))))))))))))))

(((((((((freewill))))))) I can't even begin to imagine your pain. The only encouragement I can give you is to please not stop seeing your T. If you do decide not to continue, please talk to someone. Dealing with your own pain, that of your son and of the boys' families must be overwhelming. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers!!

((((((((((((((((((((((((((freewill)))))))))))))))))))))))))) I am so sorry about your sons friends. What tragedies. Know I am here for you. Please accept all the support you can recieve right now in these hard times.

BB

((((freewill and son))))

I can't answer your why, but please keep going to therapy, I understand you will be in a lot of pain right now, but your T can help even if you don't think that's true at the moment.

Take care,
Molly

Just saw your post. Finding out about the friends of your sons must have been tramatic.

I'm sure itt took you right into a tail spin. Something that touches us so closely is heart wrenching.

I know the last thing on earth you want to talk about right now is what happened. However, T's are trained to help us put things in proper perspective.

He won't completely understand your feelings but perhaps he can help you put some reality on what happened.

((( freewill )))

that is a lot to deal with Freewill, somethings are so hard and appear to make no sense.. just believe in the goodness that is still around you even tho these tragedies occur.. fight to have faith and will within in you and make life be the kind of place you want it to be... what is happening now is so sad... focus on the positive as much as you can tho it is very hard at times.. you can manifest the good by concentrating on the truth of its presence.. best wishes always..