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Sep 24, 2008, 02:17 AM
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I'M JUST SO SORRY FOR EVERYTHING I EVER DID.
I AM TRASH BECAUSE THAT IS HOW I WAS BORN AND HOW I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN. I TAKE AFTER MY MOTHER OBVIOUSLY ...... TRASH BREEDS TRASH. I JUST WANT TO APOLOGISE FOR TAKING UP SO MUCH OF EVERYONES TIME HERE. I AM A BAD PERSON AND I DONT DESERVE ANY OF YOU. I HOPE MY CREATOR CAN FORGIVE ALL MY SINS. I LIED TO MY DAD I COULD HAVE STOPPED OTHERS BEING ABUSED I HAVE BEEN A BAD FRIEND BAD MOTHER BAD WIFE just a bad person through and through..... nothing can get rid of the stains that are left rotten to the core thats me |
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Sep 24, 2008, 06:37 AM
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No hunny, please don't be sorry. You are not trash and you are not a bad person!
 and you don''t take up people's time here. You are a loving and caring person and you have given me and so many others strength and hope. You are not a bad person... you have said yourself: There is a life after abuse ... If you dream hard enough they'll come true ... I AM A SURVIVOR and it's true... you can't change the past, but you can change the future. You can be who you want to be... and you ARE a survivor. You ARE a wonderful person. You ARE caring. You deserve every little bit of happiness. ((((((((((gentle hugs, jinnyann)))))))))) Please take care, Molly
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Sep 24, 2008, 07:29 AM
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 Jinny, what Molly say is very true. It's the past hurt talking. You are not bad, you cannot blame yourself for the hurt--ever. You don't deserve that. Please know that you are loved and cherished and you are great mother, wife, friend. 
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Sep 24, 2008, 08:36 AM
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((((((((((((( jinnie )))))))))))))))
Sweetie, you are none of those things  although sometimes I could have written so much of the same and still feel it please don't take others words, behaviour and actions on yourself even when they are deeply hurtful and triggering your friend always, Fuzzy 
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Sep 24, 2008, 09:11 AM
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Hi Jinny, Yes I use to think I was trash too, but then I see babies in the shops with their mothers and think how could I have been trash? I think "Trash" happened to us and we made that part of us, but we are not trash....you sound as if something has triggered you, remember to breath and use this to tell yourself you are ok just as you are....
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Sep 24, 2008, 12:40 PM
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Now that you have the words for the chart toping best seller
"I am Trash,I am Bad" memerized, take a deep breath and relax. First off you don't look at all like trash. They actually turned a pile of our trash into a golf course. So if someone starts towards you with a golf club, I would begin to worry. Otherwise, no way baby. Bad...you have no idea about bad (trust me on this one). Actually in my neighborhood "you're bad" can actually be a compliment. So I guess it just depends on which crowd you run around with. I do know you are feeling down, overwhelmed, dumped on, and several other descriptions that my little brain can't come up with at the moment. So why don't you just hop over to the lily pad and we can do girl type things like shopping and shopping and shopping. 
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Sep 24, 2008, 04:53 PM
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You are a beautiful kind person.
(((((((((((Jinnyann)))))))))))))) 
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Sep 24, 2008, 05:09 PM
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None of that is true Jinny.
You are a caring and loving person, who is very proud of her children, and cares for them deeply. That's pretty much the definition of a good mother to me. You may have done bad things, we all have at times. That doesn't mean you haven't also done good things, or that you are bad at heart. ((((((((((Jinny)))))))))))
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Sep 24, 2008, 05:14 PM
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(((((((((( Jinnyann )))))))))))
You are not trash, you are a caring person and a good friend and mother.
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#10
Sep 24, 2008, 05:17 PM
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Probably you have a lot of defects. Maybe even to the extent that you say. But you should think about 2 things. First you have qualities, somewhere, now you don't see them.
Most important, everyone at one point in his life finds himself to be what he is. What he/she became depends on too many factors to know all of them and to sort out the most important. And it is no use, after all. So you may look with disappointment all your defects, but there is no guilt. What you are was not your choice. Not your fault. The best of luck |
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Sep 24, 2008, 07:43 PM
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thankyou forl all your support .... i was in a bad place thismorning .... sometimes the demons get a grip.....
depression and anxiety got the better of me, your words help me through thankyou Jinny xoxoxoxoxoxo 
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