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Sep 24, 2008, 07:48 AM
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I hurt
 and I'm just a pain in the bum because of it I'm a burden to everyone including myselfI'm so sorry 
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Sep 24, 2008, 07:56 AM
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We can't both have bad days at the same time
Except I think there's still some frozen yogurt left from the picnic under the tree yesterday. Let's go. You are so not a burden. What happened to make you feel like that? Grab that bunny of yours and stroke his soft fur and cry and let that hurt out! Not, not, not a burden!  
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Sep 24, 2008, 10:44 AM
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Paddy is sat on my knee (never sits still unless he can tell I'm upset... he's licking the tears that are falling onto my arm)
But I can't stop crying, can't stop hurting and I'm a burden because I'm depressed, I have two people in my life and there's pressure on them. I can't give them the love they deserve because I'm all too often too depressed and can't even cope with myself. I try to show them and I love them both from the bottom of my heart, but if I weren't depressed things would be a lot lot easier for them.
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Sep 24, 2008, 10:50 AM
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A lot easier for them....but what about easier for you? You need to learn to be selfish when it comes to this. What would make things easier for you? Not hurting, not being depressed. Thinking and truly believing something positive sounds so easy, but I know it's not at all. Try very hard to find one positive thing and focus on that. You have to heal for you not for anyone else, hon.
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Sep 24, 2008, 10:56 AM
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he didn't say goodbye
... he left for university today and didn't even call at my house for a cuddle and to say goodbye he just lefti want to scream and shout I hurt so bad
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Sep 24, 2008, 10:59 AM
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I'm trying to do things for me... I keep trying to find a depression support group but I keep hitting brick walls, theyre all too far. I'm going to go to the doctors, I'm going to have to... I didn't want to but I need moe help. The social worker I see has suggested I ask to see a therapist, I've just been too scared. But, now I'm so depressed I've no time to be scared anymore
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Sep 24, 2008, 11:06 AM
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Being supermans girl friend has to be a lot of work. I mean he is flying around the town at all hours of the night and stuff. Im sorry that you feel so bad. You could go to therapy it might help. If you call and tell them that you are supermans girlfriend and stuff they may be able to see you sooner
 just trying to make you laugh.
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Sep 24, 2008, 11:09 AM
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thank you minime
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Sep 24, 2008, 11:20 AM
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I'm sorry he didn't even say goodbye! Of course you're angry and sad and hurt. Strongly, strongly encourage you to start therapy--it should help a lot!! Until then.....(((((((((molly))))))))) 
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Sep 24, 2008, 12:32 PM
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I'm just even more messed up than usual 'cause he didn't say goodbye. He said he would though, that's hurting the most
I have an appointment to see me doctor on friday morning, it was the earliest I could get. Thanks for your support again ((((can'tstopcrying)))) I just wish I had other support. My dad is awful... I try and stay away from him as much as I can because he's just... argh... but even now, I've just walked upstairs and he's seen me crying and he's just yelled at me "what IS wrong with her. Can't we get rid of her" I'm so lonely, I have no friends. The only person I have is my mum (and I would say boyfriend, but....) I'm sorry
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Sep 24, 2008, 02:00 PM
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'What is wrong with her. Can't we get rid of her.'
That is dreadful! Gentle hugs ((((((((((( Molly )))))))))))) 
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Sep 24, 2008, 02:02 PM
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Quote:
((((((((((((( Molly ))))))))))))) 
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Sep 24, 2008, 02:03 PM
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When someone walks away like that without even saying good bye it hurts deep down inside. It must be so discouraging. I'm so sorry you have had to go through this.
 You're a very special person and you will always find someone here willing to listen. ((((( supermansgirlfriend )))))
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Sep 24, 2008, 02:32 PM
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thank you pegasus, fuzzy, kebsfroggy
need all the hugs I can get at the moment thank you
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Sep 24, 2008, 03:52 PM
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Hi there, I just read your post and I really hope you are feeling better. Its so sad how one thing can hurt us so much, and the thing is they (boyfriends) might not even realize what they did or how important one little thing is to us. I get the same way with my boyfriend. Hang in there though, as you can tell there are a lot of people here for you, who understand you, including me.
Hang tough! 
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