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Oct 21, 2008, 03:34 AM
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This is not happening this is not happening this is not happening this is not happening!!!!!!!!
  this isn't happening, I can't do this it's too hard!!!
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Oct 21, 2008, 03:48 AM
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You've got my support and (((((supermansgirlfriend)))))!
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Oct 21, 2008, 03:50 AM
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Can you explain what is happening Molly?
(((((((((( Molly )))))))))))  
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Oct 21, 2008, 04:03 AM
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It's just this whole thing... the depression, the reasons why I'm depressed... my dad, my physical health, my being extremely lonely, losing my best friend and boyfriend suddenly, noone IRL wanting to know me (I don't mean docs) and all the things that keep continuously going wrong.
It's not happening to me! I don't want t to! I want my best friend back , I want my health, I want to live away from my dad, I want to have friends, I want to be me!!!!!!There's no end
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Oct 21, 2008, 04:12 AM
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(((((((( Molly )))))))))
Hang in there, things can and will change, it won't be like this forever.In the meantime can you use some distractions to take your mind off things for a bit. Reading, writing, music, crosswords, social games forum, so that you are not continually focusing on the pain. Here for you.
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Oct 21, 2008, 04:41 AM
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I'm trying
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Oct 21, 2008, 04:50 AM
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Oct 21, 2008, 04:53 AM
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I can't loose him... why am I letting him ruin my life!
I can't loose my best friend... but how can I ever speak to him again when he's broken my heart, how can I speak to him again when it'll kill me because I love him, how can I speak to him again and see him be with someone else why doesn't he care what he's done and why did he go about it in such a horrible way I can't stop hurting
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Oct 21, 2008, 04:54 AM
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but I don't believe in me anymore
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Oct 21, 2008, 05:14 AM
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when things are so very hard it can sometimes be very hard to imagine that this will ever be anything other than the pain you feel today. the pain of loosig loved ones is very very real but hunny this pain will pass and things will become better again. l know you say that you dont believe in you anymore but we believe in you.We see your love , your care, your compassion for others and now it is time to award some of the beautiful qualities to YOU. You are special and you deserve some good things too, you can do this we believe in you and seethe strengths that you cant right now. That doesnt mean they are not there because we can see them be good to yourself and try do something good for you no more hurt and pain something kind and true mandyxx sending warm and healing hugs to you
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Oct 21, 2008, 05:57 AM
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Molly, you can and ARE doing it honey. You are taking a great step by getting back in with the volunteering with the children. You said the organizer invited you to a function today. GO. Let other people help in the healing. You can heal and through healing you will begin to process these thoughts and feelings that go with them. By moving forward it doesn't mean that you are forgetting him or your love for him. It means you are taking care of you so that you will be in healthier place for you, him or someone else in the future ( I know, I know, you don't want someone else. However, once you are healthy, you can't even imagine what doors will be open, what your eyes will see). Please give yourself the opportunity today to do what has been offered to you.
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Oct 21, 2008, 06:40 AM
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Hi,sorry to hear that. Can i ask whats wrong with your physical health?
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Oct 21, 2008, 05:05 PM
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(((molly))) your ship is not sunk... you are in a perfect position now to shape what you want out of the chaos.. life is sometimes like a lump of clay.. you can call the shots... you can mold the clay... you can make it as you want it to be.... dont compromise yourself as you continue caring for others... i wish it didnt hurt so much for you too (((molly))) let friends help you..
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