*trigger*didn't even happen to me, upset

I just found out that a family within my family has fallen apart. They have been falling apart for years and nobody knew, bad things happened to the girls, bad things happened to the mother, one of them is trying to "leave this place" because of it all coming out, I don't know what to do. I'm not close enough to get involved without being invited in, but I am hurting for them so much right now.

everyone always has bad news, and that feels selfish to say because I am not the one who this happened to, I can't claim pain from this happening, but it just seems like the more you go on the more bad **** happens to good people, people you think are good turn out to be ****, and I just can't take the confusion.

I hope they will be ok, and it's only hope because I'm just worried about what will come of this, it all just happened. I am scared for them all, and I hope that they can be ok and survive this like some people do, but I just don't know and this is really tearing me up right now. I just feel so ****ing hurt and it's just the pain of seeing this happen to them.

((2bfree)) it is very difficult to watch those we care for suffer or anyone suffer.... use your sensitive awareness to alert you of these things which are less than what you want for yourself or others.. you can be active and a part of diminishing these cycles by speaking about it with others, express what you feel, describe your inner fear to others who you trust... gather support with friends and family to help stop the cycle..

we can take action to end the abuse and we must if there will be more peace for us all... there are probably community programs you can get involved with... the local police department might have more info for you... or you might check the community boards in your area for groups that are more healthy in mind and spirit.. be as careful as you can about what you choose to expose yourself to... a good part of good health for others is personal safety in tune with your own... friends often influence our level of health simply by association... since none of us are perfect and prefer company to eternal solitude, find a comfortable health level for yourself and choose friends and relationships in that relative health zone...

best always..

thank you for caring nowhere. the family has been torn apart and at the moment everyone is apart and seems safe and that's all I could really ask for. I don't know who they want to know about the details. It's tough to explain, they might not want to have to talk about it over and over unless they talked to people about it so I am not really able to do anything until someone contacts me.