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Nov 04, 2008, 05:32 PM
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I post too much
 but I'm scared.... I can't do this anymore I've been really depressed this afternoon/tonight and my dad asked me to check the spelling and grammar in a letter he's wrote (our spell checker and grammar checker on the comp isn't working). So I did. But, I questioned him on what he meant by one sentence because it didn't make sense... he contradicted himself. He yelled at me so much at that point, told me that it wasn't anything to do with me so it wouldn't make sense (o.k. I agree with that, but the sentence grammatically contradicted itself!). Oh he threw such a tantrum... I thought he was going to hit me at one point, I covered my head and felt sick (my stomach flew in to my mouth... not literally). I'm staying up here now.  I'm just so fed up tonight. It's times like these where a friend was always comforting (just a welcome distraction with a random chat) get over yourself molly
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Nov 04, 2008, 05:40 PM
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(((((((( Molly )))))))))
  I am worried for you. Please share with your Doctor what is happening at home. No one needs to live in fear like that. I know you said you do not have any money but look into moving out. Could you stay with a friend or other relative? Or you might be able to get into some sort of sheltered housing or safe house. Please share with someone in your area that could help you.Please be safe.
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Nov 04, 2008, 05:46 PM
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Don't give up, I'm like your father sometimes, my husband proofs me, and I get mad that he found something wrong, and I yell at him. Its just a reaction some people have and don't know how to control, I'm glad your dad didn't hurt you.
You can post as often as you need to, you may not always get replies but just releasing the anger, stress or any emotions, that is great for you and you must continue.  Hugs Cindy
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Nov 04, 2008, 08:18 PM
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((((((((((((( molly ))))))))))))))))))))
I am sorry that your dad treated you so poorly, I am sending you lots of hugs. I don't think that you post too much so post as much as you need, that is what this place is for.
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Nov 04, 2008, 08:34 PM
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(((((silver moon))))))
You did not deserve to be yelled at like that. He was wrong. You are a good person.... take care, ktgirl |
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Nov 04, 2008, 10:13 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((((((((Molly)))))))))))))))))))) I agree with Pegasus...you need to talk to someone. Call your doctor. Call a relative. What a terrible experience for you. At least you know that you did nothing wrong and aren't beating yourself up by blaming yourself--that's a wonderful thing. Sweety you really do need to get out, somehow, someplace. Sending you a ton of hugs!!!
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Nov 04, 2008, 10:19 PM
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((((((((silver_moon)))))))))
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Nov 05, 2008, 01:04 AM
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I hate it when that happens. My mother can't stand being proven wrong. She threw a dictionary at my head (it hit) once when I was in elementary school. Try not to let it get you down too much. I know things like this can take a while to get over, but at least you've got everyone here to talk to and get hugs from ^_^ I agree with everyone else though... You should really talk to someone if you felt that threatened by your father, and if you actually believe you're in danger, you should find someplace safe to stay, because nothing's more important. Good luck, and lots of hugs! ~TheDeliciousDish |
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Nov 05, 2008, 01:15 AM
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I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes. I'm sorry you feel so unloved. You are lovable, you are worthwhile, and never, ever, apologize for posting over and over or talking about what makes you hurt. I'd much rather you say what hurts then act on what makes you hurt. Know what I mean jelly bean? I'd let you borrow my lamb if you lived down the street. Then YOu'd be taken care of . I hope you have your own lamb to cuddle.
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Nov 05, 2008, 01:31 AM
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Get over yourself? Why say such a thing? What horrible experiences you have to suffer through...you deserve much better, and you always have to keep that in mind.
If/when you have the strength, you really should look into doing something to rectify your living situation. Even if you want to help your Dad, it seems pretty clear that you're in a toxic environment. Seriously, perhaps you don't realize how bad it is, but from your descriptions, it's really really bad. Many of us are lucky to live in a world where moving away from such a home life is possible...there are many routes to do so, all leading to much richer, happier lives. You're better than what you're living through. Never forget that. |
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